It's been roughly 38 years since I started my relationship with Bill via his first daughter. Right from the start, we competed with one another. First in the "Charming" category with me trying to impress on him that I was the right guy for Karen, and him being welcoming and trying not to be intimidating (lest he ruin any chance of me taking Karen off his hands)!
Competition was the theme during each meeting we've had. Be they on a tennis or basketball court, how far we could toss a football, or racking up 'miles' on a running route. Being younger, it was incumbent on me to outdo him, lest I greatly insult him by giving less than my best effort. He was gracious when I bested him and even more elated when he genuinely beat me; qualifying with his favorite reminder, "Age & treachery will always overwhelm youth & skill."
However...I offered no competition whatsoever when it came to other outdoor activities like fishing, hiking, foraging, or hunting (if it were something I engaged in; the only firearm I'd previously ever unloaded used rubber bands for ammo). I respectfully bowed down to the man that edited for the likes of Outdoor Life, American Hunter, and American Forests magazines, (for crying out loud)! If I ever felt the need to impress anyone, I'd easily name-drop Bill!
I will miss this guy, even as challenging as it had been the past 2 years as housemates. Without regret, he has indelibly impacted my history profoundly, leaving me with some life lessons that perhaps were gaps left by my own father; making me a better, more resilient and loving man, so that I may serve as a source of pride for those that I too, will someday leave behind.
I chose the following (combined) quotes to help remind me of the man they call Bill:
"Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path, and leave a trail." (- RWE)
"I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived." (HDT)
In Peace You Shall Rest.