My dear, dear friend Bill,
For us down here, we’re celebrating my birthday, AND, Fiona and I will always celebrate yours with us. We share much more than a birth. From the first day I met you I saw we shared a strong work ethic, pouring sweat in the heat, beefing up your dilapidated barn in trade for you fixing my dilapidated teeth! We shared a love of nature, setting our tipi up in your yard to camp in. And we shared a love of the Truth, and a love of Love itself that showed in our book shelves. That love came through so obvious in simply the way you were a dentist, not to mention a friend, father and husband.
You had/have a maturity of ‘Spirit’ that is rare, where you displayed a faith in life itself that seemed to guide you, fearlessly, into the adventure of life, relationships and love (and damn good food). I don’t know if this maturity was a result of the loss of Peter and then beloved Judy but you displayed it again, in your surrendering to your final Earthly fate with your beloved adventure soul-mate Brigitte.
What secrets about God, life, trust and faith did you know and maybe were not even conscious of? But that maturity of Spirit made it easier, in a way, to let you go, back into the hands of creation, with a confidence and trust, however frail, that, yes, it will all be, as you said, OK. You were always fixing and giving. And this was maybe one of your greatest repairs and gift – that it will all be, in the end, OK. But forgive us, for we ‘hurt’ down here. It hurts so bad to lose those who teach us so much about life and love.
I wish we could have talked on the phone during your last days, like I talked to Judy, birthday boy to birthday boy, I would have told you I love you, dear friend, as I told Judy, and you would have reciprocated and we would have felt the joy and sadness of eternity in our hearts. But that’s OK (as you said). You can’t hide from me, Bill. We both know where you are…
filling all those sails out there in the vast ocean of love and mercy.
Happy Birthday my dear birth brother, and I'll hug your beautiful Bridgette when I see her at your Happy Hour.