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In memory of
Wilfred "Oakie" Charles Gauthier
October 18, 1970 - January 2, 2022
Oct 18, 1970 - Jan 2, 2022
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My brother is dying in hospice care. His children are left with out any way to pay for expenses as he had tried many times to get insurance and was unable to do so cause of his cerebral palsey. He lived in ssi his children are alone in doin this process as their mom walked out on their dad 10-11-2021 had someone told them in October when he first was hospitalized he may have had a chance to live
Why I'm raising money
Funeral expenses he wants to be cremated. His daughter is trying to finish high school and needs financial assistance
Up date my brother died tonight at 5:40 pm my life has been an emotional rollercoaster. For the last 9 months and I begged people to help him.
I may never know the ins and outs of everything that was on with my brother but I do know one thing he died where he wanted to be I begged the doctors to help him for months They would look at me and say what’s wrong with him I said idk I’m not the doctor but u tell me and the the million dollar question is isn’t he suppose to look like that? I said like what you mean with his right leg bent at the knee locked into place hand his legs were so stiff from the spacicasity from the cerebral palsy I couldn’t get a diaper on him he had to try to hold himself in the wheel chair and his legs were crossed and straight out I said no no hes not he could walk run and sit in a chair just like me and you and you’re telling me there’s nothing you can do.
I ask myself people go to jail for animal abuse every day it was inhumane what they did to my brother they knew he was in pain and he was suffering and Not one of them helped him he’s been like that his whole life Always left alone and clueless to what was going on in the world around him I told him I would never leave him alone and I didn’t and I won’t Contribute
My brother is dying in hospice care. His children are left with out any way to pay for expenses as he had tried many times to get insurance and was unable to do so cause of his cerebral palsey. He lived in ssi his children are alone in doin this process as their mom walked out on their dad 10-11-2021 had someone told them in October when he first was hospitalized he may have had a chance to live
Why I'm raising money
Funeral expenses he wants to be cremated. His daughter is trying to finish high school and needs financial assistance
Up date my brother died tonight at 5:40 pm my life has been an emotional rollercoaster. For the last 9 months and I begged people to help him.
I may never know the ins and outs of everything that was on with my brother but I do know one thing he died where he wanted to be I begged the doctors to help him for months They would look at me and say what’s wrong with him I said idk I’m not the doctor but u tell me and the the million dollar question is isn’t he suppose to look like that? I said like what you mean with his right leg bent at the knee locked into place hand his legs were so stiff from the spacicasity from the cerebral palsy I couldn’t get a diaper on him he had to try to hold himself in the wheel chair and his legs were crossed and straight out I said no no hes not he could walk run and sit in a chair just like me and you and you’re telling me there’s nothing you can do.
I ask myself people go to jail for animal abuse every day it was inhumane what they did to my brother they knew he was in pain and he was suffering and Not one of them helped him he’s been like that his whole life Always left alone and clueless to what was going on in the world around him I told him I would never leave him alone and I didn’t and I won’t Contribute
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Timeline
Born
October 18th, 1970
Passed away
January 2nd, 2022
Valparaiso, IN
Survived by
Willamina Thomas
Sister
Daytona Gauthier
Daughter
Owen Gauthier
Son
Deana Clemans
Sister
Daniel Royster
Brother
Christian Sanderson
Son
Oatis Mattson
Father
Predeceased by
Marlene Roystsr
Mother, 1945-2006
David Royster
Father, 1935-2000
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