Wes Wilcox was a truly special person—warm, kind, and endlessly generous. He had a way of making everyone feel seen and valued, always ready with a nugget of wisdom, a word of encouragement, and a genuine interest in the lives of those around him. Without Wes, Brian and I likely never would have met, fallen in love, or built the life we share today. In 2018, I had just moved back to Madison, Wisconsin, from Los Angeles, while Brian had recently relocated there from Detroit, looking for a fresh start. During a transitional time in Brian’s life, Wes and Brian’s mother, Dia, welcomed him into their home with open arms. That simple act of generosity unknowingly set the stage for our love story.

As our relationship grew, it became clear just how much of an impact Wes had on our journey. He wasn’t just a supportive presence—he was an integral part of our story. It only felt right that he be the one to officiate our wedding, because without him, that day may never have happened.

Wes had a rare gift for making people feel at home, whether they had known him for years or had just met him. He brought warmth, compassion, and understanding into every conversation, and his love for people was evident in everything he did.

Though Wes is no longer with us, his presence is still deeply felt in the life Brian and I share. Without even realizing it, he changed our path forever, and for that, we will always be grateful.