I'm Wade's niece, but he's only five years older than me and was like my big brother when he stayed with my family for his Jr. year in high school. He was very animated and made me laugh a lot--and roll my eyes too. We got along well that year, and he big-brothered me. I'm sure that was new to him growing up with three older sisters. I remember how much and how fondly he talked about his niece, Tamesa. It was an adjustment for all to have an instant teenager in the house--we usually grow into teenagers. We all realized what a good teenager he was after my brother and I were teenagers--not that we were bad, but..... Wade adjusted to a new house, people and rules while working, going to school, and socializing in a school culture that I'm sure was quite different from his school in Ketchikan.
He was instrumental in my finding out I was a very lousy singer LOL. He recorded me singing my heart out to the theme song from Arthur (Dudley Moore) with my make-shift microphone. When he played it back, I was mad at him at first for recording me...then horrified at my own terrible singing. My kids confirmed my bad singing when at age 2 they begged, "mommy, please stop singing!" He saved those around me from years of bad singing...except for my kids--I didn't think they'd notice. I'm a solo car singer now.
A funny story was the evening we picked Wade up from his job at Alpha Beta--a very large store--to go out for our weekly Friday night dinner at Francesco's--a local italian restaurant. We pulled up at the arranged time and just sat in the car--for what seemed a very long time. My dad went into the store to see what was keeping him so long and found he had been detained for shoplifting! Apparently, he was about to buy some gloves and saw us pull in. In his attempt to be considerate and let my parents know he was just buying some gloves and would be out shortly, he forgot he had them in his hands, and store personnel assumed he was shoplifting. Once explained with my dad there to verify, they let him go. He was a little freaked out by being detained, but laughed as he told the story. He was a good story teller.
We lost touch for many years and reconnected on Facebook. I went on a last-minute trip to Ketchikan with my husband on the way to Craig for a work project. Without advanced notice, I messaged Wade from a beautiful bay in the area to let him know I was there. Much like his father/my grandpa did when he arrived in Salt Lake at our doorstep without warning ;). After saying, "What the hell, Michelle?!? you couldn't tell me you were coming?" He invited us to dinner that evening and had us over again on our way home from Craig. It was so great to re-connect after all those years and meet his family! I feel so lucky I had the chance to do that. So generous and kind--such a fun evening! I'm sorry we didn't make it back to go fishing with him.
I was also truly impressed by his artistic talent all those years ago when he would bring home artwork from high school. The evening I dropped into Ketchikan, he showed me one of the drawings/paintings he had done in high school while in Salt Lake--it was incredible! I had forgotten just how talented he was.
I know we didn't stay close all those years, but I will always feel connected to Wade and my Ketchikan-born family. Love you uncle-brother Wade! To his family and friends--I'm so sorry for your loss--sending love and prayers your way.
Michelle