Cika Veljo along with his late wife Ana were key figures in my childhood and into adulthood. My childhood is filled with memories of the wonderful times our families spent together. Time spent at “the Cottage” was always a summer highlight. I have a specific memory of playing Trivial Pursuit and both my dad and Cika Veljo would always refuse to play. They would remain nearby and would then annoyingly yell out the answers!!! I remember that the answer to one of the questions was ‘Vikings’ and Cika Veljo couldn’t remember what they were called. He shouted, at the top of his lungs: “You know, the guys with the horns who yell AHHHHHHWHOOOOO!!”. To this day I wonder what the people around the lake thought when they heard the loud Viking cries. 😂🤣😂
I also remember the time a bat was in the cottage and Cika Veljo and my dad tried to catch it with a towel while the rest of us cowered. What a sight that was. 😂🤣😂
When I suffered from my first awful hangover it was Cika Veljo who taught me about the “banana eating remedy”. He also taught me to never mix different types of alcohol and to drink loads of water before going to bed after a big night out. It’s a valuable lesson that has paid dividends to this day. Cika Veljo even taught me to swim when I was terrified of water.
There were so many good times, too many to mention, but I’d like to share one more that sums up the type of people Veljo and his late wife Ana were. When I was in my early 20’s and still living at home (while working and studying), a real estate deal of my parents collapsed, leaving us homeless for several months until my folks could find a new house. My parents stayed with my sister and brother in-law and it would have been cramped with me there too. Veljo and Ana kindly told me that I could stay with them, and I jumped at the opportunity. The only condition that they stipulated was that I had to follow the same rules as their kids. Their rules were far more relaxed than the ones I had at home, so it was happy days for me!!!
Veljo, Ana and the beautiful friendship they had with my parents provided me with a template for how friends love and support each other through life. Whenever we needed something Veljo was there, whenever Veljo needed something my dad was there. There when you need them… but not in your face all the time. All of our time spent together was special and meaningful.
It’s been over 20 years since I left Toronto and the only thing I missed since leaving is the people and Cika Veljo and Teta Ana near the top of that list. It’s hard to fathom that we won’t have a chance to create new memories or share and laugh at old ones.
I love and appreciate them both very much and the world is much more lonely place to me without them in it.
Danilo, Colleen, Sava, Marko, Petar & family... please accept my deepest condolences.