Tribute from Rebecca Burns: Tyliko's fiance'
A TRIBUTE OF MY LOVE'S LIFE
What can I say? The man I spent 12 years with! We have two daughters surviving and one deceased, and also we shared his son. He wasn't perfect. He's made some mistakes and had some bumpy roads along the way, but he never once stopped trying to live a better life. Yet stubborn at times, he had to do things his way. He loved his children and me more than life.
One of the funniest moments that I can recall is when he lost his car key and had to get one made. I remember once the key maker was almost finished making the new key, he found the missing key in his pants. Even the key maker said to us, "that's a first." If you knew him, we had been looking for hours trying to find this key, to find out the key was in his pants all along.
Tyliko would tear apart the house looking for something. He lost things all the time. I would sometimes come home to find the entire home rearranged just because he felt like it.
He loved how I cooked. I knew exactly how he liked his steaks or lamb, well done all the way through but not tough, and they had to be tasty, well seasoned.
We had deep conversations. I could tell him anything, whether he wanted to hear it or not, but one thing for sure, he would always listen. He was my rock, my everything. I knew him inside out and he knew me the same. We had a bond like no other; we just knew what each other was feeling.
Tyliko and I came from two different worlds, but we used that to have real conversations that was so meaningful. I realize God needed him more than we did. God took his pain and sorrow away, and now he is living among angels watching over his beautiful kids and everyone he loved.
Maybe God prepared me for this in a way. Our days together were beautiful, especially when we would stare at double rainbows, enjoying our conversations, and we would talk so much that my voice would give out. I loved how we would go driving together taking in the scenery. Our last road trip together, he didn't even backseat drive.
I miss you everyday, and I oftentime look at my phone, thinking maybe this is just a dream. I sit waiting for your text saying to me "come on over, move your ass one more time."
He knew I was a talker always, so once I started, especially with my mom, his mom or his grandma, I would be there forever talking. He was a family man. He loved his mom. He loved living with his mom and sisters, even though he probably annoyed everyone from time to time. It was all about love and family.
He was proud to be an uncle. He loved his nephew, and he was so proud of him seeing him grow. He was very proud of his sisters seeing them as strong ass women and doing their own thing, having families and working hard. His momma, though he loved that woman with everything, he would try to listen to what she had to say. He loved cutting her yard and fixing things around the house for her. One time he binged watch "In the Dark" with his momma. He was definitely a momma's boy, but he still maintained his manly man ways. There wasn't anything he wouldn't do for her. Tyliko was always in his mom's refrigerator raiding it, because he was always hungry. LOL. He always said, "I'm a hard working man, and I gotta eat."
He loved his aunties. He appreciated his support group cheering him on with whatever decisions he decided to undertake. As for his grandma, he loved going over there just to spend time with her, especially when I was over there doing her hair. She would be out in the yard, and he would help her to make sure everything was done to her satisfaction. He sometimes tried to do it his way first, but she always corrected him by telling him, no, she wanted it this way. It was so sweet to see how he enjoyed doing things for her, like building a shed for her in the backyard. Pretty much during our whole relationship, he wanted to build that shed for her. He helped built a deck for his mother, as well.
Tyliko was the life of the party. He was known as the "family's bartender," mixing all sorts of concoctions. He wanted everyone to have fun and have a good time. Him and his special bro/cousin were known for their burn fires at bbqs, and he thoroughly enjoyed his company. They truly were brothers, and he enjoyed those times with him.
Missing you, My Darling, Tyliko. My life will forever be changed without you in it, My Love.
Rebecca Burns,Your "Love you Baby"