Per Tom's wishes - no services will be provided. His immediate family will have a small gathering to scatter his remains along the Canal Path in Fairport NY. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation on this site. The total will be split amongst his most revered charities and organizations - Fairport and Webster Lacrosse programs (where he played, coached and watched his children play the sport he loved), St. Benedict Catholic School (where his grandkids attend), and the Warrior Walk at U of R (where he participated as a survivor and where his family will participate in his memory).