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Tom and Katie we are so sorry for your loss. You are like family and our immediate family on Darlene's side has lost two young sons as well. He lived so close in Palatine from us and we are frequent visitors to the Willowbrook Wildlife Center, a wonderful place to rehab injured animals.
Dave & Darlene Wyosnick
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Hey Tom, I'm very sorry for your loss. I am very deeply saddened. I know you and your family loved him so very much. Take Care, Michael.
Oh Katie and Tom,
We are all so very saddened to hear about Tommy. He was such an important and beautiful person. We really loved him and had so many wonderful times whenever he visited us with Dylan after we had first moved to Chicago. He meant a great deal to all of us and had a real heartfelt way of making people feel close to him. His vibrations will carry us all and he will never be forgotten... with love, Frank, Brooke and Heather
Tom/Katie and family, we are so sorry for your loss. We pray for peace in your hearts and know that Tommy is in the arms of Jesus where perfect love surrounds him.
Katie and Tom and family. I am so sorry to hear about your son. I can’t imagine what you are going through. Although I didn’t know him he seemed like a very interesting young man. My heart band prayers go out to you

Leisa Glass. A classmate.
Tom and Katie,
I just read the newspaper and I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I will catch up with you and Katie soon.
My sincere condolences,
George Karabetsos
Dear Katie and Tom and Family,
I am so sorry to learn of your son's passing. I can't even bare the thought of the grief for you and your family. I hope you feel the love that surrounds you, now and always. Praying for your healing, comfort, strength and peace during this painful time.
Deepest Sympathy. Mary Jane and Joe Sadauskas (Las Vegas)
Tom , Katie and family, words can not express my deepest condolence.. your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Joe and Julie Gemignani
Tommy was the little brother I never had. I have so many memories of me, audre, Tommy, and chrissy together, building forts, eating cookies, painting Tommy's finger nails (sorry bud!), roller blading in trempers parking lot... so many memories to even list. Tommy had a lasting impact on me, and even though I haven't talked to him in many years, I never forgot about him. Tommy was so deeply loved, and I'm so sorry for everyone grieving the loss of such a wonderful soul.
I can't begin to express how much I cared about Tommy and how much I wish I could have known him even better. I first started talking to him when I was fifteen and he was fourteen, and met dozens and dozens of others through him. He was always a helping hand when I needed him, and I'll miss him so so much. My most sincere, deepest condolences to everyone who knew him and loved him.
Tommy and I were in the same circle of friends for many years, but had never really gotten to know each other. In December of 2016 (?) we were at a con together, and ended up chilling in the same hotel room. Somehow, the subject of punk music came up, and a friendship budded immediately. Despite the craziness of a con, we sat in a hotel room and talked for hours about everything...and nothing. It was the perfect start to a friendship.
Since that time, every time I'd run into him, I'd be greeted with a smile and a hug, and occasionally a random song quote.
Tommy was gentle and so full of love. My heart aches.
My deepest condolences and sympathy for your terrible loss! Prayers for peace and comfort for you and your family! Sending so much love!

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