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I feel so sad I can’t describe it. I tried to help Tom and just got busy with work and we drifted apart. He was a genuinely good person.
Whenever I hear the song “I’m gonna be (500 miles)” I always think of Tom! I remember having a great time with him when he would visit us at BG. He was always smiling and laughing. He was a wonderful person!

Sending thoughts, prayers and love to the whole family.
One of my favorite memories of being with Tom is at Tiffany and Beeb's wedding. We had one heck of a time and he was so full of joy. Another thing that will forever remind me of Tom is the song "I'm Gonna Be" (500 miles)

Tom was a great person. Praying hard for peace for everyone. Sending all my love and hugs!!!
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Tom had a great smile. I like to remember a big grin on his face, even as I scolded him for some mischief.
I am sorry Tom, I hope you know how strong I always thought you were and even during hard times you always gave me hope... I know that you were in alot of pain and i hope you found peace... I love you man!! <3
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I love you Tom and i know your in arms of god and just filled with peace and happiness. Watch over your mom and family. See you when I get there. Ima try powder sugar on my eggs for you bud. Stubborn funny guy. You were so passionate and loving and cared a lot about everything that you did love. Oh Tom ima miss you guy.
Being Tom’s big sister, I have countless stories, but I will tell my daughters’ favorite “Uncle Tommy” story. When we were kids, every Christmas Eve we would have a sleepover and Tom woke me up probably every hour asking me if it was morning yet. Finally we decided it was time and we came out to the living room to discover Santa had come!! Too bad it was only 1am and we had to go back to bed. 🤣 (as a mom now I see how annoying this likely was, sorry mom!) My girls now have a sleepover on Christmas Eve and love to hear about the year Uncle Tommy woke me up every hour.
I remember you Kristi, telling me that Lindsey locked Tommy in the closet. It’s been nice rekindling our friendship these last few years. We’ve had some really fun times. One of the best with Tommy was when we played laser tag. Let’s all remember the good times, and have many more stress less ones.

Love ya sister. That’s another funny story.
Love Debbie
I’ll never forget all the fun times I had during the holidays as a kid with Tom, I was always so excited to see him and get to hangout and play around with him, he always made me laugh. I’ll never forget his fun spirit ♥️
Kristi & Family - I was so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. I know this is a rough time for you all and wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts.

With love,
Denise (Winkler) Haviland

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