Happy Birthday, dear Teferi.
Teferi and I spoke over phone 14 or 15 years ago. It so happened he was supposed to call me for work. As respectful and decent person as he is, he was addressing me with highest regard - አንቱታ - that made me laugh. He didn’t realize who he was talking. I told him who I am, we both laughed. ምን ላድርግ ብለህ? ቢቢሻ አንቱ እያለ ስለነገረኝና የማውቅህም ስላልመሰለኝ በተለመደው አክብሮታዊ ባህንችን ማዋራት ነበረብኝ, he said. That is Tefe, very much anchored to his roots, identity, and humility. In one of his interviews I heard him say he wants to be remembered as a good person, nothing else. His being Jazz legend is nothing for him, not even being a celebrity and an astute intellect and ethnographer. All he cared about was being human, a true human being. He is such a soft spoken person, but witty who knows to make jokes. We laughed on number of things, and discussed serious matters. We both love cake. We had occasions where we discussed many ideas over cake at his favorite LaPatisserie. We eat more than one piece of cake at once. 🙈Guilty as charged 😊
Before shows, during breaks, or after we spoke on many maters. He has a unique way of looking at things, which I believe is where he gets the idea to having a fresh look into his music. He loves tradition and many of our discussions involved tradition, civilization, and humanities. There is no dull moment with Tefe. But Tefe has his own shy side too, he likes to be reserved and stay in one corner. Despite his stage personality, once off stage he goes to the corner and disappears.
I have so much respect for Tefe for who he is - Tefe the person. Very personable, down to earth, who loves his family dearly. Over the years he has introduced me to Abinet, his better half, an artist - painter and professor. ድሮም ባልና ሚስት ከእንድ ወንዝ ነው የሚቀዳ:: He used to tell me projects such as progress with his home construction and album production. The Peugeot 404 family and his VW (both from the 1960s) are not only his signature, but also a testament that he cares less to flashy materials. Also, another testament to his outlook that springs from the depth of classical thoughts that he is not afraid to stand alone and speak the truth to power.
May you rest in power my fried. The love and respect I have for you knows no bounds. You may not be present among us, but you are always around us. The legacy you left all of us with is LOVE, HUMANITY, and HUMILITY. I am lucky to have known you in person. I treasure each moment.
Thank you for being my friend.