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Stefanie's obituary

Stefanie Ann Mary Bender passed away suddenly on January 26, 2021.

Stefanie was born on October 5, 1976 in Pittsburgh. She was the beloved daughter of the late Dr. Robert Bender and the late Eileen Helen Koper Bender. She graduated from Ellis Academy and attended Cornell University. She graduated from the University of Pittsburgh Law School. Stef loved photography, nature, animals, and especially making friends from all walks of life. She is survived by her brothers Robert Michael Bender and LT COL (USA RET) John (Jack) Nicholas Bender, extended family members, and many dear lifelong friends.

The funeral mass will be held on Friday, February 5 at 10 am, at St. Richard's Catholic Church: 3841 Dickey Road, Gibsonia, PA 15044-2617 (724-444-1971). Stefanie will be privately interred at Restland Memorial Park in Monroeville, PA.

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We are so sorry for your loss. Love, Andy and Lala.
We are so sorry for your loss. Love, Andy and Lala.
We are so sorry for your loss. Love, Andy and Lala.
To my best friend Stefanie, you'll be greatly missed. Hope we will cross paths again. Much love, Jim
To my best friend Stefanie, you'll be greatly missed. Hope we will cross paths again. Much love, Ji…
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