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Happy Heavenly  Birthday  Aunt Shel

Miss ya 

Miss talking to you.. sharing kitty picks... you're  very much missed.
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Happy Birthday in Heaven Sister sorry you left us too soon..but you are loved  and missed every day..
Shel and I graduated from high school together. We played on the same softball team. We loved riding in the back of the truck to and from practice. We both had a love for Elvis. Shel was funny and quick witted. She always had a quick funny comeback to a smart remark. We lost each other after high School but reconnected several years ago. It was like old times.walks down memory lane and updates on life today. Shel I miss our long conversations and all the funny comments. So glad you chose to be my friend. Love ya big

Aunt Shel, 

 I always  looked up too you. I once told her she was my olvia newton john because she was so pretty.  She just laughed  didnt realized i thought that way of her. I remember when I was young we'd  go over to visit and I would play with her blonde wigs and play with snowball her cat. She loved cute kittens and would forward cute kitty videos to me . She had a loving personality  you couldnt not like her. When neenaw passed I wasnt able to have anything of hers. Aunt shel sent me a nightgrown of hers to keep close.  We would lay in bed and type many nights about different things. It is so hard to understand. When I lost my youngest son she sent me a nice letter it meant  alot.  You'll  always be in our hearts and missed everyday. Uncle  Bob will need lots of love during this difficult  time. It will take time . It doesnt get easy just easier to handle knowing she's with family in heaven. She would always say, You were Born here  in California  Missy. You should see the beaches, I said one day ill see it but im scared of flying never been on a plane. There is so much to say . Just know heaven gained a true beautiful  angel.  Rest in peace  love you aunt Shel.

Give neenaw a hug for me.

I will remember her love of fur babies for she cared for them all with love and a good home .Shel had a kind heart and was loved by all who knew her.Rest in peace in Jesus's arms..until we meet again in Glory land.Forever loved and never forgotten..you were a sweet sister and will be remembered in my heart and soul till my last breath.

Aunt Shel was very inspirational and loved her cats and Santa Maria weather. She loved talking to whom ever would listen lol. Never a dull conversation with her as she always had something new to talk about. She and Bob loved there movies and lunches out as often as they could. 

We will miss you Aunt Shel ! 

Will never forget the love and kindness shel and her sisters showed my family when we lost mom. After not communicating for many years we reunited by messenger early this year and enjoyed sharing posts to get our president back in office. I will miss you very much and long for the day we can be reunited. Watch over me, your my special Angel now❤️
Shel enjoyed Island travels 
 Shel loved her kitty cats
We talked by phone for Hours about the Years we missed after each left home to begin our own life journey with our mates.
We laughed, we cried, we cussed and decussed life happenings!!! 
Shel Will Be Missed By ALL***

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Shelby "Shel" Barksdale