In Loving Memory of Sebastian Read

March 18, 1988 – October 18, 2025

It is with profound sadness that we share the passing of Sebastian Read, who left us far too soon at the age of 37. Born and raised in South Africa, Seb’s life was one of movement, discovery, academia and deep connection. His travels took him across continents. Wherever he went, Seb carried with him an open heart, an infectious curiosity, and an extraordinary ability to make strangers feel like lifelong friends.

Seb’s passport may have told the story of his journeys, but it was the people he met along the way who told the story of his life. He had an instinct for connection—striking up conversations with seatmates on planes, shopkeepers in foreign towns, and old friends at new crossroads. His laughter transcended languages, his empathy crossed borders. 

Those who knew Seb will remember his warmth, his wit, and his rare gift for presence. Whether it was over a cigar, a coffee, or a sunset somewhere far from home, he made you feel at home.

Seb was as intellectually gifted as he was kind. A proud scholar of Michaelhouse Boarding School in South Africa, and  graduate of both Stellenbosch University, South Africa and the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania, he excelled academically and earned numerous accolades throughout his studies. His brilliance was never about ego—it was about curiosity, discipline, and a genuine desire to understand the world and its people. He brought that same thoughtful rigor to every challenge he faced, inspiring colleagues and friends alike with his sharp mind, humility, and unwavering work ethic.

Seb’s faith was a constant thread throughout his life. He was a man of conviction—a Christian whose belief was lived deeply. His kindness, generosity, and grace flowed naturally from that faith. He saw God in the people he met and in the beauty of the world he explored. In moments of challenge, his strength came from prayer; in moments of joy, his gratitude shone through. His faith guided him not by rule, but by love.

One close friend shared:

“Seb always gives far more to others than he takes. Seb is always there for me and has put my needs first even when it’s at an inconvenience or hardship to himself. Seb’s kindness, thoughtfulness, and effort are instinctive and unmatched. There are too many stories of Seb’s selflessness and kindness to ever fit in one message.”

Seb’s generosity of spirit reached everyone—he treated all people with equal respect and kindness, no matter their background or circumstance. His humor was sharp but never cruel, his compassion constant but never performative.

He had a playful way of reminding people they were connected—sending spontaneous selfies from airports, beaches, and mountain trails, as if to say, “I’m thinking of you. We’re all still here together.” That was Seb—bridging distances, keeping hearts close no matter how far he roamed.

Above all, Seb was deeply loved and valued by his family. They cherished him for his warmth, intellect, and adventurous spirit, and all took great pride in the man he became. His family are so grateful for the light, care and presence he brought into their lives. Though he explored the world widely, he remained ever present in their hearts—carrying their love and values with him wherever he went.

Seb is survived by his loving mother; sister; cherished niece and nephew; brother-in-law; aunts and uncles; cousins; and an extraordinary circle of friends who became his family across the globe.

Seb’s spirit continues to travel—through the stories shared about him, the lives he brightened, and the love he spread wherever he went. His faith assures us that he has found peace in his eternal home, reunited with the God he served so quietly and so well. In every conversation he started, every laugh he sparked, and every friendship he nurtured, his journey lives on.

A celebration of Seb’s life will be held on Sunday, November 16 at 14:00 ET at Resurrection Philadelphia - 123 S. 17th Street, Philadelphia, PA 19103.

If you are unable to make the occasion, please do share stories, laughter, and maybe cigars in his honor, just as he would have wanted.

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