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Please consider giving to a fundraiser for Scotch Plains Fanwood Scholarship Fund.
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Personal note from Your wife

Rory,
The day I first saw you walking down the ramp at Park Junior High School, I had to know who you were.
We dated a few times on and off, but never seriously until our senior year.
There was always something there, for both of us.

We shared many wonderful years together. Having 3 children, kept us running. We worked hard and enjoyed our free time spending many summer days, weekends, and weeks enjoying Long Beach Island.
Your dream came true and we moved to Florida four years ago. It was your dream come true, and your, “Paradise.”

Unfortunately, as you got weaker and weaker, you depended on me for many things.
Life got hard and then harder… I became your caregiver, and then Hospice started in June.
As much as I didn’t like parts of that job, I knew I would stay with you and care for you forever.

I love you with all of my heart…
My Endless Love
Love,
Donna

Obituary

Rory Ruhl, a brightly shining beacon whose light was extinguished far too soon, passed away on September 21, 2025. Born on January 21, 1960, Rory lived his life with an infectious vibrancy that deeply touched those around him.

Rory was well-known for his warm, outgoing personality. His friends could always count on his friendly demeanor, his caring spirit, and his vivacious zest for life. His mantra of never giving up served as an inspiration to …

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 Dear Donna and Family, So sorry for your loss of Rory. A Great Husband, Father, Grandfather and Friend!! He will be mi…

 Dear Donna and Family, So sorry for your loss of Rory. A Great Husband, Father, Grandfather and Fr…

 Dear Donna and Family, So sorry for your loss of Rory. A Great …

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What was Rory's favorite color?
Blue
Blue
Blue
What were Rory's favorite local spots?
Restaurants on the water
Restaurants on the water
Restaurants on the water
What were Rory's favorite vacation spots?
Hawaii, Long Beach Island and Florida
Hawaii, Long Beach Island and Florida
Hawaii, Long Beach Island and Florida
What were Rory's favorite ways to spend free time?
Fishing, the beach, sunsets, and family time
Fishing, the beach, sunsets, and family time
Fishing, the beach, sunsets, and family time

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Born

January 21st, 1960
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Graduated from high school

1979
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Got married to Donna Dinizo Ruhl

September 7th, 1985
Elizabeth, NJ

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Method of disposition

Cremation

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