Robert's obituary
With a deep sense of sorrow, we announce the passing of Robert Martin Hughes, 66, of Long Beach, NY. Robert passed away peacefully at home with his beloved wife Patricia by his side on July 30, 2023.
He was a devoted family man and is survived by his wife Patricia Hughes, whom he married in 1982. Their union was blessed with four wonderful children. His daughters, Jacqueline Gasper and Jennifer Lang, and his sons, Christopher and John Hughes. Robert is also survived by his brother Thomas Hughes, sister-in-law Ingrid Hughes, sister Denise Graff, and nieces and nephews Bettina Hughes, Karl Hughes, Nicole Hughes, Alexandra Graff, Therese Graff & Liam Graff.
Robert was predeceased by his parents Thomas and Therese Hughes.
Bobby's warmth, optimism, and personal charm were evident to all who knew him. He had the kind of personality that could light up a room. He was grateful for the little things in life- a beautiful beach day, a Yankees win, or a great day on the golf course. He loved traveling and would often recall his favorite memories from his recent trip to Italy, his cross-country adventure with his daughter, and his trip to Glacier National Park. He was a dedicated family member and friend who spent much of his time helping others - he was always there to generously lend a hand or offer great advice when you needed it most.
Bobby loved to laugh. He always looked on the bright side and lived with a relenting sense of optimism. He felt lucky to live the life he did. He loved being a dad, a husband, and a New York City firefighter. He saved many lives, and was so humble about all the good he did in this world. He loved making new friends wherever he went, and embellishing stories from his childhood for the laughs. He was a great listener who gave sound advice, but always had a witty comment to add. He was incredibly smart and never stopped learning.
Bobby’s (aka “Woody” as he was best known at the firehouse) commitment to service was evident through his long-standing career with the FDNY. He started his career in 1981 and he was proud to work in Ladder 151, Engine 235 and "The Big House". His dedication to the FDNY lasted for an impressive 23 years, until his retirement in 2005. His achievements in service, alongside his dedication to his family, are some of his greatest accomplishments.
In honor of Robert, rather than sending flowers, we ask that you consider making a donation to the "Stephen Siller Tunnel to Towers Foundation" at the following URL: https://everloved.com/life-of…. This cause was close to his heart and your contribution would greatly honor his memory.
Robert has left behind a legacy of kindness, humor, and generosity. His spirit, his teachings, and the love he shared will live on in the hearts of those who had the good fortune to know him.
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Rest in Peace Bobby.
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Rest in Peace Bobby.
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