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I was just speaking with spiritual partners this past Tuesday about how meaningful our weekly group was to my life, emotional maturation, and career advancement efforts. Growing with Bob and our other partners was a gift. Being seen, heard, and cared for…seeing, hearing, and caring for…that’s the stuff of life! Thank you, Bob, for getting in the sandbox with me and playing the game of life. 
My condolences Will, family, and close friends. I knew Bob years ago.  We went to summer camp in Maine. We were good friends and enjoyed all the outdoor activities Camp Beech Cliff had to offer including swimming, canoeing, sailing, and hiking.  
We got wet & wild that day
2016, Knott's Soak City, Beach Boulevard, Buena Park, CA, USA
We got wet & wild that day
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To Bob's family and dearest friends, 

He was a loved little boy, cherished by his parents, Jan and John who introduced him to love (and respect) the sea, the thrilling rush of winter's air while carving turns across Sugarloaf Mountain's snowpack, compassion for the furry creatures that enriched his childhood and instilled in him,  the concept of empathy which guided his life into adulthood. By the time, I'd met Bob in college, that empathy had developed into an urgency to fight injustice on behalf of those who'd been its victims. He sought change for the better, the seed of which had been planted by his father who devoted his life privately and as an elected official to improve life for citizens of Bangor, Maine where Bob grew up. In all, it was a very strong foundation for a young man who stayed true to these principles his entire life. Before his career in law, Bob saw journalism as his calling and was rightly proud of his work to shine a light on under-reported aspects of our society. Regardless if it had been years since we'd talked in person, our exchanged conversations via the Internet reflected the same concerns that we had always shared. To me, it was a measure of how true our friendship had always been. God bless you, my friend. You will never be forgotten. 

His service this morning was so very beautiful, so very touching..  It brought tears to my eyes. ❤️ 

 Will- I would like to have a copy of the photograph slideshow that was shown.. Is there a way I can have a copy without having to join and pay a monthly subscription to Dropbox? 

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My name is Gregg. I became friends with Bob through Cribbage. He would bring his Father to my Cribbage Club. I offered to drive John to play Cribbage and Bob could never thank me enough for doing that. I miss John and Bob very much. My thoughts and prayers got out to Wil and the family.
Darling Will, It is because of you & Bob that I was able to get through my loss of Thom 10 years ago. Without Bob & you I wouldn’t be able to live the life I live today. My heart aches knowing you will no longer have that handsome Bob by your side. Hopefully there is an HYC heaven filled with the rollicking and laughing boaters we love & miss. I will forever treasure the years of our memories. Safe seas Bob! You will always be in my heart 

I wish to express Heartfelt Condolences on behalf of the over 11K members of the "You Knew You Grew up in Bangor Maine" FB group that Bob created because of his love of Bangor. He left us a legacy for which we will be forever grateful for. His admin team thought of him as a friend.

Will, Family and friends, may all your wonderful memories give you comfort as time goes on.

Bob and I shared an adolescence of Bar Mitzvahs and leisure suits, Sugarloaf A-Frames and condominiums.  He went west to college when “west” was too far a concept for anyone else.  Our moms were hilarious business parters and I loved their powder blue TR-6 almost as much as Bob did.  He came to my Phoenix wedding 33.5 years ago. I wish life didn’t keep us separated after that but social media at least kept us connected.  I offered to officiate a marriage in Maine when our state legalized same sex marriages in 2012 and would have kvelled at the privilege.  Snarky, quick, principled - I am sorry he is gone and offer my condolences to his loved ones and many friends. 

Will,

 I am sitting here listening to the never ending sound of cherry bombs and fire crackers, and can hear the choice words Bob would have to describe the perpetrators. I wish I was hearing them in person. I miss him very much and can imagine your pain.

Continuing to love him and you,

Julie

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I’m so saddened to hear of Bob’s passing. He and I met during the production of “Bent” in Long Beach, California 10 years ago. It was an amazing time and I enjoyed countless laughs and fun moments with Bob. He energized a room like no other. My sincerest condolences to Will and his family. 
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Will, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Words fail to express the shock and sadness. I knew you and Bob through St. Luke's many years ago. I followed Bob on Facebook and loved his witty comments. He was a good man and will be missed by all who knew him. Sending prayers to you during this painful time.
Will - I am so sorry to hear of Bob’s death.  While I didn’t have the opportunity to get to know either of you well, our brief interactions were so fun and authentic.  My heart goes out to you while you grieve Bob’s passing.  
Will, it is such an honor to have had the opportunity to meet your partner Bob. While our interactions were brief, I saw the humor and kindness Bob always brought into the room. That lightness and love is something you will continue to carry with you; it was his greatest gift to you. Remember him in painful and exhausting times, and continue to surround yourself with those you practice the positivity and lightness he brought to your life. You are not alone in this loss.

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