My thoughts and prayers go put to you Mom. I prayer our heavenly Father will comfort you and give you strength in this hard time.  I look back on all the years I've known Bob and have come to realize that I never realized how much of a truly good man he was until reflecting back on all those years. Bob came across as kind of a harsh smart ass most of the time. But he had a tremendous amount of patience looking back at all those years dealing with 3 asshole stepsons and all there unruly friends. He would do almost anything for anyone and truly loved my mom, he had a huge heart under that rough exterior. He will be greatly missed.