Richard's obituary
Richard lived a storied life—and he told those stories well.
He worked in his family’s Irish pub from a young age, growing into the gregarious man his ever-widening circle of friends knew and loved. He met the love of his life, Regina, in their hometown of Rockaway Beach, telling anyone who would listen that he was going to marry that beautiful girl with the long blonde hair. And he did in 1975.
Richard went on to serve in the Army during the Vietnam War and was discharged in Germany, igniting a lifelong love for travel. He had a special fondness for U.S. National Parks, Disney World, and any seaside resort. He also loved planning his Toomey Tours trips for his friends, family, and practically anyone who shared his wanderlust and appreciation of a “good deal.”
A passion for music also took Richard everywhere from seeing Stevie Wonder at the Fillmore East to The Grateful Dead at the Fillmore West to Woodstock 1969 (in a moving truck, no less).
After moving to Rhode Island to start his family with Regina, he became a beloved teacher in the Burrillville school system, where he taught industrial technology and computer courses for almost 30 years. A man of boundless energy and many hats, he also lent his talents as a consultant for Apple, amateur travel guide, and maître d’ at the Tavern on Main in Chepachet. Despite suffering a heart attack in 2008, he continued traveling and adventuring with his wife and family.
He is survived by his wife of 44 years, Regina Toomey; sons, Brian and Chris; daughter, Kyla; and sister, Pat Donohue.
Two Celebration of Life events—emphasis on “celebration”!—are planned: the first will be held Monday, March 4, at the Tavern on Main in Chepachet, Rhode Island, from 2 to 9 p.m. Bring your happiest memories of Richard. The second will be held in Rockaway Beach, New York, date to be determined.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Nature Conservancy, 800-628-6860, 4245 N. Fairfax Drive, Suite 100, Arlington, VA 22203.
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Memories & condolences
Richard was a good friend who I started my real estate career with in 1978. He was going to college to be a teacher at …
Richard was a good friend who I started my real estate career with in 1978. He was going to college…
Richard was a good friend who I started my real estate career wi…
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Think of him often. Always thought he was invincible, but I guess we’re all just one toke over the …
Think of him often. Always thought he was invincible, but I gues…
Remembering fondly the master of the ¨bump¨. We met Richard on a snowy morning, Florida tickets in hand, trying to get…
Remembering fondly the master of the ¨bump¨. We met Richard on a snowy morning, Florida tickets in…
Remembering fondly the master of the ¨bump¨. We met Richard on …
Regina- My thoughts are with you,the kids,and of course with Richard.........Just wanted to take a moment share my firs…
Regina- My thoughts are with you,the kids,and of course with Richard.........Just wanted to take a …
Regina- My thoughts are with you,the kids,and of course with Ric…