Lisa, Preston, Jacob, and Philip (and families):
Rosemary and I are so sorry to hear of Rich's passing. We acknowledge and appreciate what a long and difficult journey this has been for you all, but especially for you, Lisa. The reports we have heard of your steadfastness, faith, and love through the process have been encouraging and inspiring, but also totally in character with the Rich and Lisa that we've known for many years.
It would be easy to gather the memories and material to write a chapter or two about the impact the two of you have had on our lives and the lives of so many others. We have been temporally blessed and spiritually enriched by the friendship we shared from decades ago.
While there have been many examples posted on this site of Rich and his character (which was unique to say the least), one of Tim's fondest memories of Rich was 6:30 breakfast meetings with Rich and Jim F. to discuss (and debate) theology, sociology, management theory, church leadership, and all manner of other important (and not so important) topics over a bagel and coffee.
Rich was resolute in his convictions. If he reasoned his way to a position on a subject, you were only going to move him off that stance with a solid, intellectually sound argument. Plus some valid examples. But the important point was (and this was always an evidence of Rich's character) that he COULD be moved to accept a different perspective on an issue. Though it may take arguing to a point just short of fisticuffs to get him there. Rich loved Truth. He sought out and placed a great value on understanding a matter.
We can only imagine how donning boxing gloves as a therapy for Parkinson's would have perfectly fit Rich's pugilistic instincts. The man was a contender in every way that exemplifies the Noble Warrior.
If you knew Rich, you can appreciate the story of Philip and Nathaniel, in which Philip introduces Nathaniel to Jesus. Upon seeing Nathaniel approach, Jesus states "Behold, an Isrealite indeed, in whom is no deceit!" (John 1:47) Rich Spratt was as authentic as any man we have ever known.
Too soon for those who survive us - and yet soon enough for those of us observing the difficulties of aging and life in these perplexing and challenging times - we will find ourselves approaching death's door. We can't help but imagine that Rich walked up to that door with the attitude of someone who owned the place, sanctified and justified by the One who conquered and redeemed that foul territory long ago. But who was also the One who was the lover of his soul. Rich humbly understood that his reservation was top shelf, paid for in advance by his Savior in anticipation of his arrival.
Upon our glorious calling home, one day we will hear Rich's laugh again, and we may even hear something akin to "well, that took you long enough!" In the interim, we should--we must--be about the process of living a life following the example of men and women like Rich Spratt, and the multitude of saints who have gone before us, working diligently to one day hear the words we are sure Rich has already heard: "Well done, good and faithful servant!"