Aaron & Kate, and family, Judi and I want to send our deepest sympathies on the loss of your Dad.
We are so sorry to hear of Richie's passing. I am so glad Dave, Al and I got to see him @ the nursing home a short while ago when we ran into Aaron..! It was bittersweet and truly heart-wrenching, having gone through the same thing with my Dad 11, almost 12 yrs ago, and my mother in law a little over a year ago. I feel blessed we got to see him, knowing down deep, the prognosis probably isn't very good because it's such an insidious diseaser...but now the suffering anguish and pain are over. He's at peace now.
I have stories, I was not as close to your Dad as Davey and Al were, but it didn't really matter because when we did get together for some form of fun and frivolity, whether we were playing cards, or talking trash on the golf course, or smoking a big ole fat cigar, he always made you feel like it was just yesterday since we last spoke. I loved him as a dear friend and man who always, (emphasis on 'always) made me laugh. A few instances I can recall...
Allen Benton Wrights funeral was a classic..! I have told people this story more times than I can count and I want my service to be just like how Richie delivered Al's eulogy. One minute he had us in tears, and the next we were wetting our pants over a story he was telling us about the two of them on a business trip somewhere(that always involved a rd. of golf), then back to a serious story and had us all balling again. Thats how your Pops was, as you guy already know, witty, charismatic, interesting and a wonderful story teller and not to mention whip smart..!
I'd be remiss if I didn't mention the Peter Sellers -Pink Panther bit where we would role play the scene where Sellers is renting a room(pron ruem) from an old Austian guy and asks "does your dog bite..? And, low and behold, he gets bitten! And and Sellers says, "I sought you said your dog does not bite?"(bad French accent), and the old man says, "s' not my dog".. we would giggle uncontrollably (or I would) even after saying it for the 100th time in the 30 years I knew Richie.
OMgosh, then there were the golf trips or just the outings. Some we can speak of, and others, well I'd probably rather forget. b/c back then, when I was drinking, I always seemed to be "over-served"adult libations back then, and we would inevitably end up playing cards till the wee hours of the morning with all the Burns brothers, Ray, and without fail, Bill "Lucky" Luckman, would have to ask Richie, "hey Rich, what game we playing..?" And Richie would look at him, over his glasses and say, "Bill, its a little old Indian game..! Thin Patee (need a lil help w/sp. Davey) or Kings and Lil Ones, 5 & a half 21, way too many to mention. But I truly believe he's in Heaven right now, giving your Mom a hard time, because he's going to golf with Allen Benton, Lucky, & Bill Roman. Then they'll end up playing cards...!
Rest in Peace Richie, your time on this plane is over, enjoy the next..! You deserve it..! And save me a chip and a chair. .!