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Rebecca "Becky" Kutcher Styles

Concord, CA
August 20, 1941 - May 10, 2025
Aug 20, 1941 - May 10, 2025
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Becky was so kind and helpful to me as a new teacher at Ygnacio Valley High School. She became a dear friend. After I moved to VA, we would have lunch together every time I was back in CA. It was always a real joy to me to see her.  I feel really blessed to have her as a friend. I’m really going to miss her.
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I will miss Becky.  She was so inspirational, unflappable, wise, witty, and adorable.   I was ever in awe of the calm and sensible priorities she always lent to GQCCC, whether as leader or team member; she simply brought out the best in the rest of us.  
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Fran Dauth, Becky's twin sister, is a friend. Becky's death has been a big loss for her. Grieving Becky's loss as well,

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My heart goes out to Becky’s family.  She was a wonderful person, and a family friend for so long. Becky was an inspiration to me as a quilter, too.  I remember how kind, intelligent, and funny Becky was.  I remember lots of laughter with Becky., and our mother shared a good friendship with her.  She will be so missed. ❤️❤️❤️
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I'm so sorry I can't be with you at Becky's life celebration, David, Saskia, Fran and Judy. Becky and I were flatmates in Berkeley when she was studying at San Francisco State. We had many joyful and interesting adventures! She is a wonderful person...the world was better for her being in it, and we are counting on her to be pulling for all of us now. Blessings to you and her whole family. 
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My condolences to Becky's family. I have such fond memories from my childhood of Becky, Jim and David.  My mom, Arlene Louis, and Becky taught together in the early years.  
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Becky will be missed. She was very helpful to me as a new teacher at YV. I was very lucky to have her as a friend.
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I am Margie's daughter in law, Kim .  I met Becky almost 9 years ago.  As I got to know her over the years I enjoyed her intelligence and wisdom. She was a class act and she will be missed by so many.. 
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From Margie Garcia- we loved her very much and miss her. 
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I met Becky through Kathy Snyder many years ago….shes been a great friend and I’ll certainly miss her sense of humor and great outlook on life.
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I am so very sorry to read of Becky’s passing. I met Becky for the first time at Peets last year to go over how she wanted me to longarm her quilts…2 hours later we were still chatting. Another time, she scared me by dropping into my quilting group on a Monday in her new electric scooter…it was so quiet that I didn’t even see her!!! Next thing I knew, Becky was next to my chair saying hello and had a quilt for me. I truly adored Becky. ❤️❤️‍🩹❤️
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My husband Stanley and I knew Becky and Jim for nearly sixty years. Becky was a perfect foil for Jim. He was boisterous, Becky was the calm one, the rock. Jim used to call my husband “Stan-Ree.” One morning years ago, I awoke from a deep sleep hearing Jim calling out Stan-ree!!

I called Becky and told her I was sure Jim had died. He had. Now they are together.   I’m sorry for all of us who loved Becky, but happy for the two of them.  

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We will all miss Becky at our Sunday coffee. She was wonderful company.

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In our last conversation Becky’s parting comment was how fortunate she was to have such a wonderful daughter-in-law Siskya and always the presence of David sharing company and laughter. Wish my knees would allow me to attend this party celebrating her life well lived and long remembered. I will wear my fushia/hot pink swim suit June 14 and try to do 40+ laps, the number of years I have known her, in her memory. Miss you more than I can say BStyles.  Jackie
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I'm so very sorry to hear of Becky's passing.  It was always great to see her.  She was one of my favorite people.  May you be comforted by your memories of her at this sad time.
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Becky at the quilt guild meet…
Concord, CA
Becky at the quilt guild meeting.
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