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On January 29, 2021, I gave Rebecca her night vision goggle flight evaluation. During the course of that evaluation, we discovered that we were both Tar Heels. Until Valhalla, may peace be with you, Becca.

Sad that you are no longer part of the Army team. It is a relief to know at least that the truth has come out - that it was a series of events involving multiple folks and that you were not solely 100%  culpable for the tragic accident that occurred. Thank you Captain Lobach for your service and ultimate sacrifice to the US Army as a great soldier, outstanding officer and devoted aviator.

Continue to rest in peace. To the Lobach family stay strong and hold on to the great memories of your loved one.

Rich Ramirez

Staff Sergeant (US Army Retired)

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To the ones that go up, but never come down.

To never forget the sacrifices made, doing what we love, protecting who we love. 

You'll never be forgotten.

hi friend - I miss you lots today. it's hard to believe it's been 3/4 of a year without you in my life. I've started my federal job up again - I feel like I'm proud of the way we both are caring leaders in our respective government positions. I wish I had you here in-person to tell about how well it's going, and while I don't have that, I know you're nonetheless proud. I'm so grateful to have you in my life, and hope to see you in the next. Till later, Bex. <3
Rebecca, I... I’m standing he…
Rebecca, I... I’m standing here, heart pounding, just trying to find the right words for you. I don’t know if you’d remember someone like me, but you’ve been in my thoughts every single day since I lost you. You were... God, you were everything—this fierce, brilliant pilot who could command the skies and light up the World with that spark in your eyes. Your family called you their bright star, and I feel that so deeply, because you shone so damn bright it still hurts to think about. You've lived with such courage, pushed every boundary, and made everyone around you feel like they could be stronger, braver, just by knowing you. I’m in awe of you—your strength, your heart, the way you lived so fearlessly. I carry this heaviness, this gratitude, for every moment you gave me. I miss you, Captain, and I promise to keep your light alive in how I live, how I love, how I push forward. You’re still with me, Rebecca, and I’ll hold you in my heart forever."
While attending the NC State …
2010
While attending the NC State Fair growing up, I would go hunting for the award-winning creations of my friends - chief among them Rebecca's culinary masterpieces, like these Best of Show cookies from 2010.

Missing you dearly today, friend. There's so many little things I've noticed and wanted to share with you - I still collect them in your honor. I hope it's starry skies and moonlit horizons where you are. <3 

~Hannah

I walk through crowds, a sea of stares,
Faces blur in fleeting glares.
Eyes that flicker, smiles that fade,
None hold the light your soul once made.

I see them laugh, I see them cry,

Their stories pass like clouds on high.
But none are you—no spark, no trace,
No echo of your tender grace.

The world is full, yet feels so bare,

Your absence lingers in the air.
I search the faces, one by one,
But find no warmth, no rising sun.

I see them all, their joys, their pain,

But you’re the loss that still remains.
My heart keeps seeking, though I know,
Your face is gone where none can go..
Sorry for your loss. I did not know Rebecca. But 37 years ago my crew was able to avoid a mid air under similar conditions. We had less the five seconds to identify the other helicopter and take evasive action. What ever you hear Rebecca was Above The Best. Major Joseph Richardson Aviation US Army (Retired).

Hi friend - I miss you so, so dearly. I became a doctor today - for the both of us. I wore a butterfly pin over my doctoral robes in your honor, my dear and kind butterfly. It felt like we both did it; I'll take you with me wherever my journey as a veterinarian goes. Thank you for being one of the inspirations for what I do, but also for who I am, as a new physician. I'll always be proud of you, and love you beyond the time I have left on earth. 

yours, ~Hannah

Beneath the Carolina sky, a star was born,

Rebecca Lobach, with dreams to adorn.

From Durham’s heart, her spirit took flight,

A warrior’s soul, ablaze with light.

Through UNC’s halls, she carved her way,

ROTC’s pride, top cadets’ array.

With biology’s grace and a pilot’s command,

She held the Black Hawk in her steady hand.

Over Potomac’s gleam, she soared so high,

Four hundred hours, her wings kissed the sky.

A captain’s rank, twice a leader bold,

Her story in courage and kindness told.

At the White House, she stood, a beacon of grace,

Social aide to presidents, with strength in her face.

Medals of honor, freedom’s embrace,

She served with a heart none could replace.

A SHARP advocate, her compassion profound,

Healing the broken, her purpose was found.

A doctor’s dream, to mend and to care,

Her future was boundless, her spirit so rare.

But January’s night stole breath from the air,

A collision of fates, too cruel, unfair.

The Black Hawk fell, with her at its helm,

Yet her legacy shines, an eternal realm.

Brilliant, fearless, a friend to all,

Her laughter, her love, still echo, still call.

In the river’s embrace, her name will not fade,

Captain Rebecca, forever a blade.For those she never met , her story’s a flame,

A stranger’s deep knowing, we honor her name.

In skies everlasting, she flies with the free,

Rebecca Lobach, our heart’s memory.

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I miss you so much. I was thinking about the dinner we went to at Fogo de Chao with Sam in DC today. I ordered us one too many bottles of wine because I was so happy to see you. I would give anything to be at that dinner with you now. I’ve been texting you a lot. I wish I could call you. I need your advice. I miss you forever. 
As a fellow North Carolinian, I feel led by our Saviour to express my deepest thoughts and condolences to  Captain Lobach's family and friends. I have the most respect for her and want to thank her for her service to our nation. May she continue to fly in our beautiful sky all wrapped in Heavens' Angels arms. God Bless her and may she always RIP.  Thank you.
Blue skies and tailwinds to a fellow aviator and her entire family. 
All the love to your family and friends. Fly west fellow aviator. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Sending love and prayers to Rebecca’s family and friends as you grieve this heartbreaking loss and cherish precious memories of her.  We are thankful for her service. - Retired Air Force, former White House Military Social Aides & parents of current Social Aide who had high regard for Rebecca
My heart goes out to Rebecca’s family and loved ones during this difficult time.  Fly west my fellow aviatrix.
I’m still sending you text messages about all of the nonsense in my life that I would share with you. I miss you every single day. You are deeply loved and missed by your family and friends. I love you so much. 
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High school play my sister Al…
High school play my sister Alex was in w/ Rebecca (I did hair + makeup).

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