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Ms. Phyllis "Weasel, Phyllie" Louise Vance

Castro Valley, CA
December 20, 1968 - June 24, 2025
Dec 20, 1968 - Jun 24, 2025
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Phyllie's 50th birthday.
2018, Oahu
Phyllie's 50th birthday.
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My heart was broken when I heard about your transition. All of my fondest memories of Highschool include you. You shined bright light everywhere and I truly am grateful for your friendship. Thank you for tutoring me in Math, you were the smartest in the class. I love math because of you, my friend. So sad we graduated and planned on getting together so many times. Life got busy and now you're not here . Sit in heaven and in God's arms. Love, Michelle 
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My Dear Phyllis,

It is very hard to process that you are not here.  I would have never thought that we would be friends for almost 40 years. We were just crazy teenagers doing crazy teenager stuff.  I am thankful for every minute I was able to spend with you and all the loving friends you introduced me too. You were truly the biggest Ray of Sunshine. You lived your life to the fullest.  There will never be another as great as you. You were my biggest cheerleader. Thank You for Loving me so much. 💔💔💔

Vickie Lynn

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— with KimK,Phyllis,Vic, Krissy(Cutiest)
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— with Phyllis,Vic,Val
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— with Karen,Vic, Val, Phyllis
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— with TT, Vic, Phyllis
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— with Lisa, Vic,Phyllis
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— with Phyllis, Vic. Mila
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— with Flava Flav, Phyllis and Vic
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— with Phyllis, Vic, Cindy
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— with Phyllis and Vic
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— with Phyllis and Vic
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This is blow to my heart .she was the best of friends in my life .she will always remind me of all the fun we had growing up and all of the troubles that we never had .like life has now. I wish your families have as much  fun in life as she has had she will never be forgoton. And I'm shure she is rolling her eyes crusian the cosmos with all of our departed friends and families .Phillis  give my dog a big red kiss 💋  for me like you always did ...
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I'm just sorry I didn't get the chance to spend more time with you, my sister. Rest in peace with the angels... Love Jennifer
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My heart is broken but so glad you're at peace now. We grew up together n you'll always be weasel to me. I love you forever dear cuzin.
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I know you have your wings and are forever flying high, dropping in on all of us during all times, thank you for being you and loving me unconditionally. I am truly a better person for having collided paths with you on earth my precious, beautiful and amazing Phyllis Louise. We will continue to live, laugh and most importantly love in your memory forever! 
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My sister cousin,, all our laughs, cry’s good times bad time’s dancing, singing,, concert’s street festival’s Even getting hit as pedestrian’s by a truck they could not understand why we were laughing,,in e.r..there is not a day that has gone by ,, that I don’t see your beautiful smile,,and you giving me advice,, even when angered at one another, we would look at each other anger at each other,and start crying and say we were sorry and we love each other,,it is so surreal to me that I will never see you,, here on earth,, but I do know I will see you one day and I can have all those silly crazy times we had together in my heart,, I always called you my sister cousin because you were my baby sister,, love you, and miss you ,so much,,baby girl❤️ may your beautiful soul rest in peace till we meet again🙏
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I met Phyllis on my first can…
2022, Petaluma, CA, USA
I met Phyllis on my first cancer walk in 2022. I was recovering from stage 2 breast cancer. Her entire soul gave me strength. I will be forever blessed to have met her.
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