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Elder Pastor Perenise "Peni / Ben" Lilo Tofete

San Diego, CA
October 13, 1949 - January 30, 2026
Oct 13, 1949 - Jan 30, 2026
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I remember first meeting him. I was in elementary I think 5th or 6th grade. My mom said we was about to go visit a different kind of church lol He had that hippie van 😂 a gray one. First church function I noticed how humble and meek he was. He was so quiet and always smiled big ☺️ Church really became routine..but wasn’t nothing routine about how he prayed for and over his ppl. It was such a way of life for him that YEEEARS later I mean years 👀😂 I randomly popped up at prayer meeting and I heard him say me n jays name in his prayer…I was stunned and it stopped me in my tracks because wow..how lucky I was and am to have this man continuously praying for me even though he seen me never ❤️🥹 My mom talked about how he tried to save her from being enslaved by the family 😂 by the time she came out she had to run after the car. I know him enough to know..if there was something that needed to be done he’d do it without question and with a smile on his face. He couldn’t sit down until he knew everyone was good. I shared this picture because look at him 😭 if they don’t support like this…throw it away 😂 love you unk. Gonna miss the subtle gestures 🤍 
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