Paul's obituary
It is with deep sorrow that we announce the departure of Paul Van Gilder, who left this world on April 22, 2025. Born in 1960, Paul lived a vibrant and impactful life for 65 years, leaving behind a legacy that will continue to inspire and influence many.
Paul was a man of great character, imbued with a unique combination of charisma and compassion. Those who had the privilege to know him would best describe his personality as polite, funny, caring, and charming. His ability to face adversity with strength and courage was one of his most admired traits, and a lesson he often imparted to others.
One of Paul's greatest accomplishments, and perhaps his proudest, was his son, David. The bond they shared and the man David has become is a testament to Paul's devotion and commitment as a father. He also leaves behind his daughter-in-law, Stephanie Van Gilder, who shared a special relationship with Paul, marked by mutual respect and affection.
Paul's legacy is one of kindness and bravery. His love for others, his dedication to his family, and his strength of character in the face of life's challenges will continue to resonate with those who knew him. His life was a testament to the power of resilience, the importance of humor, and the enduring impact of love and kindness.
As we mourn the loss of this remarkable man, let us remember Paul for who he truly was - a beloved father, a cherished family member, and a source of light whose spirit will continue to shine even in his absence. Our condolences go out to the Van Gilder family during this difficult time. May his soul rest in peace.