Patrick's obituary
Patrick Robert Ford, born January 14, 1936, passed away on August 5, 2024, surrounded by his loving family after a courageous battle with cancer and heart disease. Patrick gave an intense fight before succumbing to the illness and joining his beloved wife Luana, daughters Tammy and Kelly, brothers Frank and Mike, grandson Caleb, and many others who have welcomed him to the afterlife, including his parents. His partner, Patricia Ettl, survives him; his sons Mark (Judy) and John Ford; his daughters Melissa and Kathy (Chester Wolniakowski) Ford; brothers Gary and Jeff (Chris) Ford; grandsons Joshua (Laura), Noah, and Justin Ford; granddaughter Sarah Ford; great-grandchildren Hunter, Sierra, and Maycee, and many others who were near and dear to Patrick.
Patrick, the eldest of five brothers, was born in Michigan to Robert Ford and Antoinette Bernice Janusz. After spending his early years in Marinette, WI, the family moved to Milwaukee. His father’s early passing made him the man of the house, a role he didn’t just embrace; he embodied it with a deep sense of responsibility and care for his mother and younger brothers. His commitment to his family was unwavering, a trait he carried throughout his life, always putting his family’s needs above his own.
In 1959, Patrick married Luana, and they moved to Brookfield, WI, where they raised six children: Mark, Melissa, John, Tammy, Kathy, and Kelly. His love for his family was not just evident; it was palpable in everything he did, from his 50-year career as a car salesman, where he instilled a strong work ethic in his children, to his hobbies and interests. He was a pilot and proud owner of a Beechcraft Bonanza, a sailor with a 27’ Catalina, which he modified to be sailed solo, and a skilled craftsman and hobbyist tinkerer, always working on a project. Patrick’s love for his family was the driving force behind his passion for life and his hobbies, and he was a diehard Packers and Brewers fan, often enjoying the games with a cold Miller. His hobbies were not just pastimes; they reflected his zest for life and his adventurous spirit.
Patrick, a devout Catholic, had a deep faith that was the cornerstone of his life. As he always said, “You have to put God first” to have a successful life, a belief he and Luana shared as they raised their children. His faith was not just a part of his life; it was the strength that guided him through his journey. He was very involved in St. Agnes Parish in Butler, WI, helping to start athletic programs and ensuring the clergy had good transportation. He attended daily mass and taught his children to pray daily, leading the family prayers. His training as a Marine also held significant meaning to him, instilling a sense of discipline and honor that he carried throughout his life. Later in life, Patrick sponsored his grandsons through confirmation and was an active member of St. Joseph’s Parish in Grafton, known for his resonant hymn singing.
Patrick lost his wife Luana too early in 1995 but was fortunate to find love again, marrying Patricia Ettl on St. Patrick’s Day, March 17, 2010. Together, they traveled to Ireland to trace their heritage. Patrick stayed connected with his family in his later years, proudly sharing updates about his grandsons Joshua, Noah, Caleb, and Justin and his granddaughter Sarah. Patrick enjoyed sharing a beer with his grandsons, regaling them with stories, some tall tales, from a well-lived life. All who knew him will deeply miss his presence, wisdom, and stories.
A funeral mass and celebration of life will be held at St. Joseph’s Parish in Grafton, WI, on September 27, 2024. Visitation will be at 11 a.m., with a 12 p.m. mass to follow. The family will communicate further details so that all who knew Patrick can pay their respects, honor his memory, and share the many ways he affected their lives.
The family would like to express their heartfelt thanks to each and every one of you for the outpouring of love, support, and condolences during this difficult time. Your presence and kind words have been a source of comfort. May his soul rest in peace, and his memory be a blessing to all who knew and loved him.