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Patricia Veronica Stockhamer (Fagan) was born June 26, 1945, in Brooklyn, New York. Patricia entered eternal rest on 02/02/2026 in Shelby, North Carolina. She was the daughter of Catherine Coggins and John Fagan and spent most of her life in Tarrytown, New York.

She is survived by her siblings, Jack Fagan and Katherine Fagan Stenz; her daughters, Dawn Biddy (and her husband Martin), Cheryl Bongiorno, and Laura Bongiorno; and her ex-husband and lifelong friend Lee …

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Deepest condolences to Pat's friends and family. Remembering a holiday at my own Mom's with Pat and Lee and Katie Rose …
Deepest condolences to Pat's friends and family. Remembering a holiday at my own Mom's with Pat and…
Deepest condolences to Pat's friends and family. Remembering a h…

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What were Patricia's favorite books?
Poetry books by Billy Collins and Mary Oliver
Poetry books by Billy Collins and Mary Oliver
Poetry books by Billy Collins and Mary Oliver
What was Patricia's favorite color?
Blue
Blue
Blue
What were Patricia's favorite foods?
Lays potato chips
Lays potato chips
Lays potato chips
What were Patricia's favorite games to play?
Scrabble
Scrabble
Scrabble

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Born

June 26th, 1945
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Passed away

February 2nd, 2026
Shelby, NC

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