Well, it’s the holiday season, and I can’t help but think of you. Memories of past holidays come rushing back. When I first entered your life in 2001, I immediately loved going to your home for Sunday dinner or the holidays. Those dinners at your house became a highlight for me, creating a sense of belonging and family. The holidays were fun, full of family, laughter, John’s guitar playing and singing, just pure joy.

Even when circumstances shifted, we made it a point to gather for holidays as we could. I remember our conversations after John passed, when you shared how much you missed having the whole family over and how difficult that transition was for you. You continued to try and get us all together throughout the years.

What I admired most about you, and what you taught me, was the importance of family—no matter how things appeared. You welcomed everyone around the table, making each person feel wanted and loved in your own unique way. You truly had a gift for making every gathering feel special and memorable. This holiday season, your absence feels especially profound, though the truth is, I miss you every single day. Last night, Ben and I decorated the tree, and you were very much a part of our conversation. Remembering you always makes us smile. We will always remember you and keep you with us.

Thank you, Pat- You never forgot me, you always welcomed me, cherished me and for that I am so grateful and Thankful. Happy Heavenly Thanksgiving. I love you.

xo-

Jackie 

To the family of my American cousin (by marriage): I am so very sorry to hear that Pat has died.  The last time that I saw Pat was about 5 years ago when she came to England and we met up and had a fabulous day together in London.  We also had some lovely email conversations/exchanges once I left Florida and came back to England.

She was a beautiful person inside and out.  

She will be missed so much.