I think the first time I met Pat was in a gotomeeting session where I was showing Pat and Peter how the Destwin system worked. In particular I remember explaining degree days and K factors and I recall leaving that presentation thinking – those guys are pretty smart. But they were not only smart, they were also kind, generous, fun to spend time with and my friends. They were angel investors in Destwin and for that and their friendship we will be forever grateful.
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Dear Peter
We were truly sorry to hear about the passing of your wife, Pat. Our deepest condolences go out to you and your family during this difficult time. May you find comfort in cherished memories and the support of loved ones as you navigate through your grief.
Family Melein (Holland)
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How to describe Pat . . . She was brilliant, beautiful, warm-hearted, adventurous, graceful, and a spectacular athlete. During the years Peter and she lived in California, Bill and I greatly enjoyed sharing with them ski adventures, running Bay to Breakers, cheering on the local football teams, and some amazing meals. I recall shrieking with laughter on more than one occasion as we competed for the “fall of the day” on various ski slopes. Happily, we remained in touch after they moved to Germany and enjoyed visits back and forth. Pat and Peter were true soul mates, and our lives have been vastly enriched by knowing them.
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2017, Pizzeria La Rucola, Breidenplatz, Düsseldorf, Alemania
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Dear Peter,
Nancy and I reacted with great sadness to the passing away from Pat.
I remember fondly the time in Wiesbaden, the conferences in the US, and our time together. Pat will be greatly missed.
I am also really sad that we cannot make it to Dusseldorf on Thursday. Do know that our thoughts are with you! and that we will follow the ceremony remotely.
Rudi & Nancy
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2006, Duesseldorf, Germany
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Pat and Peter were a part of my German FICO life for years. We mixed work and pleasure during my many week to weeks-long visits. Pat was a bright, precise and quick witted and I enjoyed her company. These were very much the good old days and I will always treasure our time together. Below are a few stories.
As others have commented, Pat was always well turned out and made it look effortless. Pat took me on a necessary clothes shopping adventure. She was my guide, translator, and fashion consultant. The cashmere sweater and silk jacket (I still have them) still bring back happy memories, from so long ago.
Pat rescued me when my “luggable” computer needed to have an emergency repair that resulted in a working computer, but with all the instruction menus converted to German. The dilemma was to know which menu option was to “delete” versus “save” or to “copy” instead of “paste” and other such subtle actions. Pat and I sat down for hours, with Pat and I translating the precise German menus into English equivalents that would work for me. We notated the translations onto many Post-It notes that hung off of my computer screen, making the computer look like a piece of modern sculpture.
On a long road trip, we three stopped for a late lunch at restaurant set on a hillside. As we were leaving, the restaurant locked up for the day. Somehow, Pat wound up locked inside the building. She found a window that opened and she called out to Peter to come and rescue her. Peter stood below and caught Pat as she climbed out the window, a truly romantic rescue.
She is now resting in peace after her long journey. Peter sending you a virtual hug from California.
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My condolences To Peter and family. Now she is resting in peace.🙏
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Sending virtual hugs and my deepest condolences and love at this sad time.
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I was saddened to hear of Patty’s passing; she was a special lady loved by all who knew her. May Peter and family be comforted in this time of sorrow with the beautiful memories they shared with her.
Holding you close in my thoughts.
With Deepest Sympathies, Nancy
Part of a poem titled “Your Spirt”. When I see a bird chirping on a nearby branchI will know it is you singing to me.When a butterfly brushes gently by me so care freelyI will know it is you assuring me you are free from pain.When the gentle fragrance of a flower catches my attentionI will know it is you reminding meTo appreciate the simple things in life.When the sun shining through my window awakens me
I will feel the warmth of your love.
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Pat and Peter are part of my FICO family. I cannot recall working on projects together but there are two things I want to share about Pat.
First is my envy for her well behaved hair, it always looked immaculate. I am not sure if she worked hard at it or not.
My daughter, Bryony reminded me of something else about Pat. When Bryony was about 13 or 14 we visited Pat and Peter in Germany with our good friend Dee. Bryony couldn't remember Pat and Peter, but she did remember their large elephant seat. Pat liked all things elephant including a brooch with three elephants in descending size that I used to wear on suit jackets. It was her turn to envy me. Whenever I wear it I think of Pat.
Thank you Pat for being part of my FICO family, I hope you are now at peace.
Gillian, Stewart and Bryony
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Our Lives on this Earth are just a matter of moments, but good memories last forever.... so long Pat, and let your good memories embrace your loved ones
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I loved Pat’s quick wit. She never left the house without looking beautiful, yet easily overlooked my own messy countenance. We shared so many good memories, of visits to each others’ houses, of shared vacations and travel. She made our life so rich
In response to "What made Patricia different from most people you know?"
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I am so sorry to hear about Pat this morning. I enjoyed meeting and working with you both on the purchase of the beautiful home in Diane and Blake's neighborhood. It is unfortunate that Pat's illness made it impossible to move. She was special and will be greatly missed by many people.
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Lots of good memories from our days in San Jose and Bay Area together, from long nights in the apartments, lots of wine and cheese fondue, to Pat and Peter's wedding in Carmel, skiing it Tahoe (where I was the entertainment!), surf boarding, which I could never master. Lots of laughs, lots of good times. Rest in Peace, Pat, we will all miss you .
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