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Pamela Bailey Gilmore, 72, of Rochester NY, passed away on November 3, 2025. Born on September 5, 1953, Pam graduated from Westmoreland Central Schools and spent most of her adult life in Sherrill, NY.

Pamela was a loving and devoted mother and grandmother who cherished her family above all else. Her personality was magnetic; she had a gift for making people laugh with her quick wit and sarcasm, while also showing endless kindness and generosity. …

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I was so saddened to hear about Aunt Pam's passing. I'm holding onto so many great memories we shared. She was one of a…
I was so saddened to hear about Aunt Pam's passing. I'm holding onto so many great memories we shar…
I was so saddened to hear about Aunt Pam's passing. I'm holding …

It is often in times of loss that we look at the part we played, or could have played, in our loved one's life.

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It is often in times of loss that we look at the part we played, or could have played, in our love…

It is often in times of loss that we look at the part we played…

Pam and I met in grade school, her family had just moved to our area.  We both had the same first name and turned out w…
Pam and I met in grade school, her family had just moved to our area.  We both had the same first n…
Pam and I met in grade school, her family had just moved to our …

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September 5th, 1953
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November 3rd, 2025
Rochester, NY

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