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*To A Great Friend*.

Mrs. Ada Onuba was an “Educator to the Core”!

Starting from her Dad, to her Husband, and to almost all she interacted with, her life was about getting educated and educating others. And as her name goes- Ada or Adaoma, she was a “good daughter”, who “deserved a crown” (Nwanyibueze). Our journey together has shown her to have lived up to her names, including her marital name of Onuba, for she has left a testimonial that “many mouths” shall continue to proclaim. All to the glory of our Almighty Father- Creator of all things bright and beautiful.

One only needs to remain focused, to behold the beauty in all of God’s creation. And so, Adaoma was such a beautiful and sweet soul that I met through our professional relationships with- first and foremost her loving husband (Emma), and then next herself.

Starting from our employment as Federal Officers in the early eighties, Emma and I served within the then Universal Primary Education Teacher Training Programme (Federal Min. Of Education), at the Kaduna Teachers College, Kawo- Kaduna. Somehow, the cordial relationships we had as work colleagues gradually extended to include our families. Thus our spouses became very relevant in complementing the effort of educating all others. An interim structural adjustment to the U.P.E. Programme caused Emma and I among others- to be reposted. And thus, Ada and I then also directly became colleagues at the National Educational Technology Centre (Federal Schools Broadcast), Kaduna (Nigeria). Emma and our several other colleagues got reposted to Federal Government College, Kaduna.

However, the camaraderie that existed among all of us remains till date. For our children have gotten to be interacting almost like siblings, by embracing same bond of friendship they observed us share as parents. Most observable was the loving attention our ever-smiling Ada and same as Emma, paid to all students as well as fellow staff, in all these places. It was hardly distinguishable who was the either FGC or NETC staff between Ada and Emma, her Sweetheart. For they were both devoted and committed to the spirit of “education for all”, that most of us were raised to have been operating with. Ada has been a “Sweet Mother”, for all.

Meanwhile at the NETC, Ada worked in the English language department, often producing and broadcasting several programmes’ episodes for enhancing English language learning, for many years. Her Master’s degree dissertation on the effect of “mother-tongue interference in language learning” remains a masterpiece. Hopefully, the NETC library/archives has preserved all such works of excellence.

Then came our gradual transitioning to become the nucleus of FMOE(NETC ) merger programme, that gave birth to the National Open University of Nigeria (NOUN ). The former NE TC component emerged as the Kaduna Campus, initially nurtured by Dr. Suleiman and later translating into having Prof. Tenebe as Provost, while Prof. Olugbemiro Jegede continued from inception as the Vice Chancellor (Lagos Main campus). Both Ada and several of us as NETC staff, had professionally relentlessly contributed a lot of the sacrifices and devotion to duty, needed to bring the NOUN dream to fruition. Such efforts included the initial series of writing and training workshops, in Kaduna, Lagos, Lokoja. Mainly as from 2002- 2004, e.t.c. A lot of sleepless nights of research and production of educational materials. Some of these also involved collaboration with the Commonwealth of Learning (COL). Distance Learning technology through audio and video-conferencing and other collaborative ventures were variously applied during and after the several training/writing workshops. These were also in conjunction with various academic luminaries, drawn from various other Universities- in Nigeria and abroad.

Also not left out were our spouses and families, for they gave us all the best of the necessary support that such huge academic commitments deserved, for the subsequent observable successful outcomes.

At a certain point in the merger process, some of us (NETC staff) were returned to the main FMOE either based on our retirement dates or for reposting to other aspects of the ministry. Meanwhile, a good number of us were retained either on contract basis, following our initial retirement or through some sort of permanent design. As a faithful friend and sister-in -Christ, Ada was always there to ensure that our efforts from the onset were not in vain. She always did us proud.

Ada was one of us that got temporarily posted to set up some of the NOUN field post, in various parts of the country. She did her bit very successfully, then manning the Umuahia location, and later returned to the Kaduna campus, to continue with production. She only just finally retired about three years ago.

Ada’s tenure with the Open University yielded such a resounding success as seen from the memorable very first graduates produced. Such included one of the then former Presidents of Nigeria- President Olusegun Obasanjo. The indelible and elegant procession of staff in their academic regalia at the NOUN ceremonies, included our very well-deserving colleague Adaoma, who to me represented all of us NETC staff (there in spirit), that had stood by the Vice Chancellor- Prof. Olugbemiro Jegede, in all of these- through thick and thin.

Such was a remarkable milestone for an “Achiever”, our sweet and loving, ever-smiling Nwanyibueze Adaoma Onuba (Mrs.)

Our ongoing extracurricular camaraderie- including with our families, led to such birthday celebrations that deserve honorable mentions here, too (e.g. the 40th, 50th, 70th, simple birthday ceremonies of some of us), at either the then Kaduna Club or Ahmadu Bello Way/Yakubu Gowon Way Diners or very recently the celebrant’s residence (still applying our distance learning capabilities). We have continued to text, talk, share knowledge and information. Up until this rude shock of our lovable Ada’s home call, we have had so much to update one another on, a-times being able to talk with both Emma and Ada; so much so that it seems like a dream. My home digital slideshow, seems to be contradicting the reality of it all. Ada is still very much with us, it shows. It has many cherished memories of our “Sweet loving “Ada Onuba”and her husband with the family weddings, including their tastily built and furnished Umuahia “sweet home”!

Let’s just take a moment and manage to say, “Adieu, Nwanyibueze Adaoma Onuba” anyi dum (all of us)!

May our Faithful Maker of All, comfort our Ada’s biological family in particular- Emma (her loving husband) and all the lovely children and their spouses, plus all the amiable grandchildren, as well as all inlaws- beyond every human understanding. She remains “Unforgettable”!

Rest in perfect peace, good and faithful friend!!

ADIEU, Adaoma!!!

Written by: Nonyem Ernestina Egbuonu (Mrs. )

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One year ago, we said goodbye to my Mom, a celestial soul, a heart of gold. Nwanyibueze Adaoma Onuba, your love, light, and legacy continue to shine brightly in our lives. Though the ache of your absence remains, we're grateful for the indelible mark you left on our hearts. Your unwavering faith, kindness, and generosity inspired us to be better versions of ourselves. We'll forever cherish memories of your laughter, smile, and love for life's simple joys. Rest in peace, dear Mother. Your memory will forever be a blessing to us. We love you always. 🥰
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Aunty!!!! hmmm words can't really explain how you are dearly missed. You took me just as your own son and was always after me doing the right thing. I always remember our telephone conversations which will always end with "Chidi jisike and God bless you" your encouragement was second to none and you always want everyone around you to be fine and doing well. You were indeed a giver. You will always say to me  "Make sure you go to church and hand over everything to God because this world without God is nothing.". 

Aunty, continue to rest in the Bossom of the Lord and we will forever remember you until we all meet to part no more.

Adieu!!!!

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I didn't get to know you closely, but the one time we met, your radiating smile and aura of positivity left a lasting impression. Thank you for blessing us with your presence, Aunty. You will be deeply missed.🤍🤍
We continue to pray for you and your family for the loss of your beloved mother. Words cannot fully express the depth of my sympathy and the pain we know you are experiencing. Please know that we are always here for you to support you through this trying time, as I am just a phone call away. 
Grief is a deeply personal journey, and there's no right or wrong way to navigate it. Your mother's love lives on through you and your siblings with the beautiful memories you shared. May you find comfort in those precious moments and the incredible legacy she leaves behind as she continues to rest with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen! 

Oyaks Family! 

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My sincere condolences to Arc Emeka and family, May God grant you the courage and grace to bear the loss of your mum. 
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So sad to hear,  Aunty would be missed dearly, can't forget your constant smiles and laughs even as a young boy. May your merry soul rest in perfect peace..... My sincere condolences to the entire family. 
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My sincere condolences to my friend Emeka and his family.

May God be with you all as you go through the pain of losing your beloved mother. 

Please be consoled with the understanding that she is in a better place. 

May her gentle soul rest in peace. Amen

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I was  devastated when I heard the news of your passing mom. It took me a while to truly accept the reality of a future without your beautiful smile and the cherished memories I was privileged to share with you and your esteemed family. We met as strangers on my arrival at high school but soon became family bound by  an unbreakable glue of love.  

Your kindness, compassion and unwavering support for the down trodden, the very lowly in society, has left me with life skills on the true meaning and essence of selflessness.  I can not begin to appreciate you for the remarkable children you raised who I now call my siblings from another mother. 

Though  we hurt collectively knowing we will never witness your physical presence in life form  on earth, we take solace knowing that your gentle spirit rests  in our Lords warm embrace amongst heavenly saints. My personal conviction is that you are still with us only transformed beyond our eyes comprehension.

Rest on dear mom, your race is run and your battles won. Your victory is the crown of glory and our gain is the privilege to have known you.

My sincere condolences to Dad, my siblings from another mother: Nnaemeka, Nnamdi and Nonyem and all the grand children. I stand and pray for the Lord to  comfort you at this moment of need and for the repose of the soul of our beloved mom.

Adieu  

Your son 

Anthony Mazeli

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Mama Onuba as we fondly called her in the office was not just a senior colleague but a mother, a passionate counselor, a lover and follower and servant of Jesus Christ, a generous giver, full of empathy and compassion.

 She is already painfully missed and truly forever loved. Mariam Ejenam, NOUN

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Expressed my deepest condolences to the bereaved families 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Sending you strength and support during this challenging period and wishing you comfort and peace in the days ahead.

Rest well, Mummy!

My heartfelt condolence to Emeka and the entire Onuba family. May the good Lord be with you through this difficult period. May mama's soul find eternal rest.
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**A Tribute to a Virtuous Matriarch**

A radiant soul, a loving heart, and a life of unwavering devotion

In the rich tapestry of life, some threads shine brighter than others. Our beloved mother, Nwanyibueze Adaoma Onuba (née Atuonwu), was certainly one of those shining strands, leaving behind a legacy marked by unwavering love, devotion, and integrity that will forever hold a special place in our hearts.

Mom embodied the timeless wisdom captured in Proverbs 31. Her strong faith and unwavering moral compass, combined with her generous spirit, inspired countless lives. With her warm and welcoming nature, she turned our home into a sanctuary where kindness reigned supreme. Our dining table was always filled with meals that represented love, and her heart overflowed with compassion, ready to lend a helping hand to anyone in need.

Complementing her grace was Mom’s impeccable character. Her elegance and poise made her a beloved member of every community she touched, yet it was her inner beauty—manifested through kindness and selflessness—that truly set her apart.

Among her many admirable qualities, Mom found her deepest joy in her family. She was the emotional backbone of our household, our solid foundation, and a source of unwavering support. Her commitment to us was steadfast, her love unconditional, and her pride in our achievements limitless. This nurturing environment helped shape who we are and inspired us to aim for greatness.

In her quiet moments, Mom found happiness in her favorite soap operas, captivated by their dramatic twists. Her passion for photography drove her to carefully document our milestones, laughter, and even tears, creating a treasure trove of memories we will cherish forever. Mummy had a green thumb, and though gardening was just a hobby, her skills were remarkable, and she tended to her garden beautifully. She also had a love for both secular and christian literature, as reading brought her great joy. Mom was actively involved in christian outreach programs, engaged in evangelism, participated in bible study groups, and shared her beautiful voice in various choirs.

I am deeply grateful for the upbringing I received and for the tools you equipped me with to become the person I am today. I cherish each precious memory we created together.

Mom never shied away from her role; she made tough decisions for my welfare, instilled lessons on right and wrong, and encouraged me to strive for my best self. She exemplified strength, courage, and kindness, leaving an unforgettable mark on this world. Your unwavering belief in me boosted my self-esteem and encouraged me to chase my dreams with confidence.

Although her absence has left a significant void, Mom's resilient spirit, infectious laughter, and radiant smile will continue to guide our way. We find comfort in knowing she now rests in the loving embrace of her Heavenly Father.

Rest in peace, dear Mother. Your love, legacy, and cherished memory will forever be engraved in our hearts.

Adieu Nnem,

Your son,

Nnaemeka C. Onuba

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Sorry for the loss and please accept the condolences from the Igboayaka family!

She was loved by many and will be missed a lot .Remember her legacy as she impacted many lives positively!

Even as you mourn,do not be like those who have no hope but remember it is a temporary parting of ways until we meet again in heaven for eternity!

Shalom.

Desmond Igboayaka & Family.

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It was shocking to learn of the demise of Auntie Ada Onuba. From our time at NETC Kaduna, she was a remarkable individual whose presence illuminated every room she entered. Her laughter was infectious, spreading joy and warmth to all around her. She embodied kindness and was always willing to lend a helping hand or offer encouragement whenever needed. Although her passing leaves an irreplaceable void, her love, laughter, and kindness legacy will forever remain in our hearts. May she rest peacefully in the embrace of her Maker.

Caroline Folake Akosile.

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My darling sister and friend. God bless you for all that you were to me. Thank you for the laughters and encouragement during my trying periods and godly advice. Rest well in the bosom of our Lord Jesus whom you served diligently on earth. I will miss you and till we meet again at the feet of our Lord. Mrs Carol Regha
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