Norman's obituary
Norman Briggs Merrill—a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend—graduated to Heaven on May 10, 2025, leaving a profound void in the hearts of those who knew him. He was a man of great faith, kindness, and integrity with a passion for the Lord that was matched only by his love for his family and basketball.
Always one to make an entrance with his unforgettable smile and sense of humor, Norm made his debut into this world on August 19, 1948 in an ambulance on the way to the hospital in Walthum, Massachusetts. His father, Edward Merrill, was in the Army as a chief petty officer and later worked for the U.S. Postal Service, and his mother, Marjorie Briggs Merrill, was a nurse who rose through the ranks to become the Director of Nurses at Sharp Rehab in San Diego. Norm was the second born of three children—his older sister, Susan Merrill Lehman, and his younger brother, James Edward Merrill, both of whom he loved very much. The military family moved around until they settled in San Diego when Norm entered the eighth grade at Taft Junior High School. He went on to Kearny High School where he ran cross country and played on the varsity basketball team.
Norm attended San Diego State University and majored in Business. He walked on the basketball team his freshman year at SDSU. For those who knew him on the basketball court, “Stormin’ Norman” was always ready for a game, where his legendary one-legged runner and hook shot frustrated his opponent. Even through the bad calls, Norm was loved and remembered by most and was known to deliver a witty one-liner with a smile as he ran by. He was a big-time Celtics and Lakers fan, both teams representing where he was born and where he built a life. He admired Jerry West, loved John Wayne movies, and Patsy Cline music.
Norm met his wife, Suzanne, while working as a TA at her high school. They wed on June 1, 1973 and were married for 52 years. Norm and Sue had two children, Josh and Stacy, of whom he was immensely proud, along with five grandchildren he adored: Sienna, Donovan, Jayda, Kyra, and Milani.
Norm’s career as a realtor and broker (even working as a realtor for the Housing Commission for nine years) was a perfect fit for his vibrant personality and his ability to connect with people. Norm never met a stranger. He always seemed to be able to find common ground with anyone and strike up a pleasant conversation anywhere he went. Norm’s dedication to his family and friends earned him a place of deep affection within his circle.
At 12 years old, Norm accepted Jesus Christ into his heart, and he rededicated his life to the Lord at the age of 26. He was baptized at that time as well. He enjoyed reading the Bible as well as books on history, faith, and apologetics and was quick to share the Gospel’s impact on his life with others. His prayer life and his relationship with God is a legacy his family will treasure.
Norm’s humble spirit, infectious laughter, and stories of his youthful days will linger in the cherished memories of loved ones. In our time of grief, we honor the life of a remarkable man whose love will forever be engraved in our hearts.