I think Norm was in my head today as I decided to finally go and look for a new therapist. It's serendipitous that it is the anniversary of his death that I made this choice today. It's hard to imagine I can connect with another therapist as well, but I'm grateful for the time I had with Norm.
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Hard to believe a year has passed without Normie who will live forever in our hearts. One of my dearest friends who I miss so much but feel so fortunate to have had 40+ years with!
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A life lesson on keeping in touch with your friends. I knew Norm for a fairly long time. We shared office space, skied and ran together on multiple occasions, and socialized in other ways, at my house and other people’s homes. For example, we had an Easter egg hunt here one year where Seanna participated as a little girl. Norm was known for many facets of his person, particularly including his humor. Yet, I haven’t seen Norm for maybe five years now, and just found out this morning that he passed away almost 11 months ago. Rest in piece Norm. We shed a tear upon learning you have left the Earth, knowing we are poorer for it
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I'm sad to hear of Norm's passing. His leadership through the Rebuilder program has changed many lives. My personal experience was this program was so helpful, supportive and inspiring. It helped me to get through some really difficult times. As a volunteer 4 times over, I saw the positive transformation of many lives with encouraging and supportive words from Norm. His patience, listening skills, and gentle guidance contributed to the success of this amazing life changing program. Norm's leadership, friendship and humor will be missed in the days to come. May your memories comfort you as you mourn his passing.
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Norm brought hope and healing to me during a difficult time. So often I have recalled his support and guidance throughout the RB classes many years ago and our interactions beyond. He was one of the wisest, most compassionate and skillful teachers I’ve ever known. His teachings and encouragement will always be with me. He is an inspiration and light that lives on.
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Norm was an important male role model while I went through Rebuilders (#70). He created a safe space for our emotions, which were all over the place for me during my divorce. He showed me the importance of grieving and how to grieve. He said “the best cure for grief is grieving” and he was right. He also said “tears wash your insides,” which was so meaningful to me to let the tears come. He also demonstrated the importance of male intimacy and honoring your pain, hurt, sadness, helplessness and other emotions men are conditioned to ignore and tamp down. Norm was the antidote to that toxic BS and he opened many doors for me to explore and express my emotions and to become a more full person. His wisdoms live in me now and I carry them wherever I go. It will be passed down to my two sons as well. So they don’t have to suffer like I had. These are Norm’s gift to me and many others I’m sure. Norm - I love you and I will keep shedding those tears as you live in my heart.
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Im grateful for learning the value of grieving and learning how. Im grateful for moving on and making my way with growing relationships and learning to be a better partner. Im grateful for being guided to feeling whole in my own shoes. The last words Norm said to me threw me, I was speechless and left the room, as I found my feet under me as I had not previously. I wish I could have told him that. He couldn't know what he said had that impact. My very first few sessions in therapy he taught me to meditate. Those who came to Norms service were a drop in a bucket of those touched by SeeAnnas dad. So many are so sad to hear of him passing. Thank you for presenting his imperfection, in his service, so we know he was as lousy as we are :-) Thank you for sharing yourselves each one of you! He created quite a community.
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Rest in peace Norm. Without you my life would be a dark, desolate and a very lonely place. You truly were a light for all those who were blessed to know you.
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Norm was an amazing life coach for me via the Rebuilder Seminars. His Concept of “huggles” changed my life for the better. thankyou Norm.
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Norm meant so much to so many - he touched so many lives and inspired change. I first met Norm when I took the Rebuilding Seminar in 2009. When I think of Norm, I think of the ripple effect he started with each seminar he facilitated, helping so many generations to come. I feel so grateful to have know this special soul. I always felt safe, seen and treasured by Norm. He was a mentor to me and a dear friend. May Norm's memory be for a blessing. This photo was taken in September of 2018, after I assisted Norm with his Beyond Self Doubt Seminar. He inspired me to get up the next morning and drive up to see the sunrise with his message of do something that makes you feel alive! What a wonderful message. ❤️Norm, you will be greatly missed.
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Norm was my therapist for o er a decade, and not a day goes by when I don't think "what would Norm say to you about this?" He profoundly changed my life and I am forever grateful and will carry my memories of him through the rest of my days. He will be dearly missed.
-Melanie
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Talk about a life well lived! Norm was an extraordinary human. He counseled me for 13 years from 2007 to 2020. Easily one of the biggest influences over me in my adult life. While I cherish many notes I received from, him his last will now take on more special meaning than it had already….
Gwen-
Working with you has been a dear soul experience. It's time to evolve to the next part
of the journey. I go with you, every step of the way-- RB, Hunter, and derby. Tender times
and laughter .
I send good heart on with you.
Gratefully,
Norm
Gratefully right back Norm for being your wonderful self and sharing your healing gifts with so many
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