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Personal note from Ron, Martha, David, Kerah, Miela

Thank you so much to everyone visiting this page.

When we got the news from the doctors that Nillani's condition was terminal, the first things she said was that she was not afraid and that she was at peace. Nillani told us how much she loved us and encouraged us to keep pressing ahead. She was brave beyond measure and held a peace that surpassed all understanding. Even when Nillani knew she was leaving this earth her first thought was to reach out to those she loved with compassion and comfort. These are the memories that will sustain us and this is the woman we celebrate. We will miss Nillani tremendously and we are forever grateful for the time we were able to share with her and the way she enriched our lives.

We invite you to share your thoughts on how Nillani impacted your life and/or your favorite memories of her in celebration of her life.

Please note: Many have asked us how they may give to support our family - and particularly Miela and Kerah. Nillani's work family at EY (Ernst & Young) had the overwhelmingly generous idea to set up a college savings plan for each of Nillani and David's girls. Below are the links to each account should you want to contribute:

Kerah S. McClain: https://go.fidelity.com/ld700n

Miela E. McClain: https://go.fidelity.com/0m5lxx

Hotels:

For those of who traveling to the New Jersey area, we have booked rooms at the following hotels nearest Imani Baptist Church:

Courtyard Marriott.

Please call or email:

Courtyard West Orange
Ms. Shiva Franklin
General Manager
Courtyard West Orange
8 Rooney Circle
West Orange, NJ. 07052
p. 973 669-4725
e. shiva.franklin@marriott.com

The discounted rate runs from Sun, Sep 4 - Thur, Sep 8 at $149 / night and then increases on Friday, Sep 9 and Friday, Sep 10, to $259 / night as they have limited space on those nights.

Cambria Hotel West Orange
Reservation link (copy and paste):

https://www.choicehotels.com/…

12 Rooney Circle, West Orange, NJ 07052
Erin Pulver
Sales Coordinator
O 862.233.4980 x 180 F 862.233.4987
Epulver@cambriawestorange.com

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In lieu of flowers

Please consider a donation to any cause of your choice.
$570.00
Raised by 7 people

Updates

Update from Sept. 10, 2022

Please find the Live Stream of the memorial service at the Facebook like below:
https://www.facebook.com/davi…

Update from Sept. 7, 2022

We invite you to watch a live stream of the memorial service of Mrs. Nillani Thomas McClain if you cannot attend in person. The live stream will be broadcasted on David McClain's Facebook page. Please follow the link to access the live stream when it is live on Saturday, September 10 at 10 AM EST.
https://www.facebook.com/davi…

Obituary

Nillani (Sharynelle) “Lu Lu'' Thomas McClain was born to Martha and Ronald Thomas, Sr. on September 3, 1971 at the John Andrew Veteran Hospital in Tuskegee, Alabama. After building a robust life full of faith, love, family, and friendship, Nillani fought a valiant battle with uterine cancer but succumbed to the disease on August 25, 2022 in New York City. She was surrounded by the love of her parents, her beloved husband, and dear friends …

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What was Nillani's favorite color?
Black goes with everything. Blue and purple after that.
Black goes with everything. Blue and purple after that.
Black goes with everything. Blue and purple after that.
What were Nillani's favorite local spots?
Cafe Luluc
Cafe Luluc
Cafe Luluc
What were Nillani's favorite vacation spots?
Spain, Turks & Caicos, Greece, Turkey
Spain, Turks & Caicos, Greece, Turkey
Spain, Turks & Caicos, Greece, Turkey
What were Nillani's favorite ways to exercise?
Kick boxing
Kick boxing
Kick boxing

Timeline

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Born

September 3rd, 1971
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Started a job at Earnst & Young

2003
New York, NY
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Had a child, Miela McClain

February 4th, 2010

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Cause of death

Uterine cancer

Method of disposition

Cremation

Woody Home For Services
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