Today, I write with a heavy heart, but also with gratitude to God for the life of my beloved sister, Mosunmola — my dear Oronte.
In Yoruba land, we say a person truly lives when their life brings light to others. That was Mosunmola. She was a loving daughter, a devoted sister, a loving wife and extremely loving mother, and a heart that carried everyone along. Her love was not selective — it reached our family, our extended family, and everyone privileged to cross her path.
Mosunmola had a rare gift: she carried people’s burdens as if they were her own. If you were troubled, she would worry with you. If you needed encouragement, she would stand by you. Her kindness was quiet but powerful.
To me, she was the most amazing sister anyone could ever ask for. I will miss our gists, our laughter, the jokes that only we understood. Those moments that seemed ordinary then now feel priceless. They are memories that will live with me forever.
In our culture, we honour our loved ones with their oríkì, the praise names that tell the story of who they are.
Mosunmola… Oronte…
Ọmọ Agbomeji kó mọ̀ mí lakoto,
Ọmọ Alujọ́rnù…
A child of strength.
A child of dignity.
A child whose presence carried honour and warmth wherever she went.
Mosunmola was the kind of daughter every mother would pray for — gentle, respectful, compassionate, and full of grace. Her life reflected the values our parents taught us. Death may have taken her from my sight, but it cannot erase her love, her kindness, or the beautiful memories she left behind.
Dear sister, go and rest in the bosom of the Lord. Greet our beloved parents, Fibisola “Aduke” and Afolabi Akintomide. Tell them we remember their teachings and the love they gave us. Say hello to all our uncles and aunties who have gone ahead.
Mosunmola, my dear Oronte, I will miss you immensely. Words cannot fully express the void you have left in my heart.
But we thank God for the gift of your life — for the laughter, the love, the kindness, and the beautiful soul you shared with the world.
Sun re o, egbon mi.
Sun re o,
Rest well, my sister.
Until we meet again.
Opeyemi Akintomide (brother)