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Morris lived in the room  next door to me in the Tuckaway dormitory at Sewanee, TN in the spring of 1976.

Habitating at such proximity, we soon exchanged greetings. Before long, he was telling me all about his life up to then, the high point of which seemed to be how he'd worked selling encyclopedias, and through this valuable experience had acquired sales skills, which he said woud stand him in good stead, whatever else happened, the rest of his life.

I didn't have any skills myself (except my post highschool stints washing dishes and life-guarding). I did know how to fiddle around on the guitar, however; and before long  Morris and I were playing guitar together in my dorm room. 

I had two guitars in my room-- a classical guitar from Valencia, Spain and a steel-stringed acoustic Epiphone guitar. When we played together, Morris always played the classical guitar. 

This guitar, when Morris initially picked it up to play, didn't have fret markers on it. Morris saw this a flaw in the guitar which would be an impediment to his accopanying me on it. To correct this, he fetched a bottle of white-out correction fluid he had stashed away somewhere in his dorm room and he dabbed little white dots on my guitar's fretboard where he figured that the fret-markers should have been.

 My classical guitar sits a few feet from me as I write this, bearing still those improvised white-out fret-marker dabs Morris endowed it with in the spring of 1976.

Although Morris, like me, mostly knew only how to strum basic chords on the guitar, he exhibited real proficiency playing the piano.  Whenever he and I came across a piano somewhere in those days (which, oddly, enough, was not an infrequent occurrence) Morris would sit down and tease out some extended jazz noodling on the ivories,some tune he'd apparently come up with, the performance of which might go on for ten to fifteen minutes depending on the night.  

Both of us were avid fans of contemporary pop/rock music. He introduced me to the album "So What" by Joe Walsh, as well as the Billy Joel album "Piano Man." I was knocked out by the Joe Walsh album, and  by the song “Captain Jack" on the Billy Joel album.

For my part, I had the recently-bought Neil Young album "Zuma." that I introduced Morris to. 

One day Morris took this record, and, placing it on his turntable, dropped the needle to the track “Cortez the Killer,”  then cranked up the amplifier volume to an ear-splitting max-level. I would have never thought of this-- because I wouldn't have dared it. Such, though, was Morris.

He intuitively grasped something of which I'd been unaware till that moment-- only ear-splitting max-volume would bring out the real glory of "Cortez The Killer."

Not long after, Morris took a notion one weekend afternoon to drag out his stereo and speakers to the front lawn at Tuckaway. He proceeded to fire up the tune “Fire” by Jimi Hendrix to maximum volume, for the entire Sewanee campus's benefit. Once again he'd demonstrated he best way to play a fine rock tune.

Aside from his interest in music, I found that Morris was a close observer of human behavior and its complexities. 

He often pointed out to me facts, quirks and complexities of our fellow-students--of people in general-- of the ways of the world-- that suprised me. He would explain to me human patterns of behavior, life-experiences, rituals, inclinations he'd learned about, none of which would have ever occurred to me, and of which, except for Morris's insights, I would have forever been unaware.  

It all came down to the fact that he took an avid interest in what makes people tick-- what they were really all about.

Maybe this was the reason that he agreed, eagerly, in that spring of 1976 at Sewanee, to accompany me on a field-trip to a snake-handling church somewhere way off in the hills. It was for an Anthropology class assignment I was undertaking. I'd located such a church- I can't remember now if it was in Tennessee or North Carolina-- and I was making plans to go there. When I mentioned my upcoming mission to Morris, he leapt at the opportunity to come along for the experience.

The day came and we drove and drove till we forked off the main road onto a rambling, gully-filled dirt road that after awhile brought us up beside a wood-constructed place of worship standing off in a clearing in the woods.

 Getting out of the car, we discovered that we weren’t the only inquisitive outside observers. A news crew from a TV station had arrived before us and wast busily engaged in filming interviews with members of the snake-handling church, and it appeared that they were seeking to portray the snake-handlers in the most ridiculous light, the idea being, I guess, that the more outlandish the portrayal, the better the news story.

As some of the snake-handlilng church goers were so kind as to give us a briefing on what we were about to experience, I was scribbling notess for my Anthropolgy class, while Morris listened attentively and surveyed the pre-service goings on.  It was expained to us that once the service would got underway, at some point the snakes and jars of poisonous potions would be brought out, at which point whoeverit was that felt moved by the spirit to handle a snake or to drink some poison potion would (per the inspiration of Mark 16:17-18) do so. 

After a few more exchanges of greetings and pleasantries,  Morris and I were ushered into the church, where we took a seat and awaited the service to start.

The service got underway, consisting at first of conventional songs of praise, and readings from scripture. Then, the snakes were brought out and placed up at the front, to the side of the pulpit, and parishoners began arising from the pews and heading up to the front where, to the accompaniment of sacred song, they began picking up the snakes.

Here was the big moment, the main event we'd come to witness, what we'd trekked so far that day to behold. 

I turned to my right to nudge Morris-- but he wasn't beside me any longer.

I looked up to the front of the church, to the snake-handlers, and there in the middle of them was Morris-- taller, bolder and more worked-up than anyone else, and in an apparent throe of ecstasy as he held high over his head a long somonolent-looking snake and shouted, "Praise the Lord!”

In the fall of 1977, I need edworked, when Morris offered me a job working on the staff of a newsparper that he'd started up with a fellow student and friend, Brian Cook, at the University of Alabama. (The paper was called The Alabama Post.)

While I was there, Morris introduced me to a professor of a Religion class that he'd taken, someone with whom he'd become good friends, the two having discovered they shared common intellectual, and perhaps spiritual, interests.  

One day Morris told me that the he'd told the professor about his snake-handler church experience, and the prof, afer digesting the tale, told Morris that he thought it signalled a profound urge in him to merge with the Holy.

Morris didn't tell me if he thought this was so or not. 

Yet, maybe so. Morris, unlike everybody, liked to live every moment of every day to the fullest. He didn't seek to; he did it.

A few years after the Alabama Post experience, one day Morris showed up at my father's house in Atlanta  seeking my Dad's advice on career opportunities in the publishing industry. (My father was The New Yorker magazine southern Sales Manager). I sat on a chair in the family room, vague;u noticing now and then the thread of their talk.

Years passed after that, and I wasn't in contact with Morris. I supposed maybe Morris was in publishing now.

Imagine my suprise on finding out, when I searched out Morris's Facebook profile, to send him a note and strike up a conversation again, that Morris had become doctor, a field for which he'd never expressed to me any interest whatsoever.

It was as much a surprise as my seeing him at the front of the church with a  snake over his head shouting out praise to the Lord. 

I shouldn't have been surprised-- with Morris, surprise is what I always, thankfully, got.

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I am very sorry to hear that Morris died.  He was about the most alive, happening, helpful, unusual, friendly, loyal, imaginative, creative, upredicatable, resourceful, happy, suprising and fun friends I ever knew, and I know he was a treasure to all who knew him, as he was to me. I am very grateful for the times we had together.
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Jacksonville Beach, FL, USA
Dr. Dees was my favorite doctor. Always enjoyed our sessions and talking about golf and other sports. He never tried to rush me and was very in discussing my medical issues. Miss you Morris  one of a kind. 
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It doesn't seem like a year has gone by since Morris' passing.  We all still talk about what a great person he was and such a superb physician.    Morris was my son's physician who passed away suddenly on Thanksgiving 2020 due to a stroke following having COVID.  He was 38 yrs old and one of the first to suffer the delayed response of heart damage following that dreaded COVID.  I know Morris felt so badly about losing him and he called me often to check on how we were coping as a family.  I was already close to Morris but then realized how connected to his patients he felt.  We were all lucky to have had him in our lives.  I hope his family has found peace within the last year.  
I am so sorry to hear about this.  I knew "Scooter" before he could even drive and he played keyboard in a local band in Montgomery.  I am happy to see that he married and had a family and a full medical career.  Again, I'm really sorry. This was too early for him.
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Suffice it to say, Dr. Dee’s was just not a wonderful physician, he was an exceptional human being. He is missed.  Trace Duryea
I was a patient of Dr Dees for just a short while but when I just heard of his passing, I felt sad and I would like to express to his family my condolences. So very sorry  for his loss to you and all his patients. 
I'm just hearing about Dr. Dees passing away in February.  Dr. Dees was my oncologist back in 2011.  I first met him at the Friends Cancer Support group when my husband was diagnosed in 2009.  Little did I know that a year later I would be needing his services.  I truly believe God puts the right people in your path when you have troubles.  Dr. Dees was that person for me.  My condolences to his family. 
My condolences to Dr. Dee's family. Morris served as my primary physician. I drove from Orlando to Jacksonville for eight years for his guidance in my care. Dr. D's insight as a hematologist and internal medicine was valuable to my autoimmune disease. Still, his caring personality and interest in how life affected health were extraordinary. We celebrated together football, family, and much more. God blessed all who knew him, for he was a good person!
I was shocked to hear of the death of Dr. Dees when I called on April 25 to make an appointment for a check up and a sore ankle.  He was my doctor since 2016.  He was a fine man and a great doctor.  He always took time with me to understand my health concerns.  He was an awesome listener and truly seemed to care. He had a great sense of humor.  He explained treatment plans and test results well. I felt better just by going in to see him. I will miss him so much. His treatments and recommendations have kept me healthy and in good shape at 78.  I just know I will not find a new Primary Care Physician that I will like as much as Dr. Dees. So sorry for your loss.
Dr. Dees has been my physician for years.  I'm shocked and saddened to hear of his passing.  Every visit was enjoyable and enlightening.  He is already missed.
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Doctor Dess was our family Doctor and he was such a great Doctor.  And a very caring person. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Although my wife and I are both die-hard FSU fans he never missed a chance to support both our personal health and on our on field successes.  He truly cared as much about our success as we did his.   While we knew he was fighting his own battle, he never waivered as he helped both of us thru ours.  Rare is the moment when you looked forward to seeing your doctor.  He gave that to us every time you walked into his office.   I know that he must have done the everyone else.  May everyone he leaves behind remember what good will he provided to others.  We will miss him and never forget what he did for us.  Roll Tide.
Dr. Dees, was the Primary Doctor for both my wife and I.  We were very fortunate to be blessed with truly the kindest, caring, Physician, either of us have ever known.  He was a Doctor who suffered right along with his patients because he cared so much and will without doubt, be missed by everyone.  My wife and I will be praying for his wife, children, family and friends.  May God Bless and comfort you all with the peace that passes all understanding.    
Dr. Dees was my primary physician and truly a very caring man. Took his time; never made you feel like he was in a hurry to get to the next patient. Loved to talk golf. Together, we got my issues under control and I was looking forward to share my recent successes with him. He will be missed.
Will miss a great doctor and friend. My wife is a 17 year survivor of breast cancer in large part because of Dr Dees. Upon his transition to internal medicine, I chose him as my primary care physician. Thanks for everything Doc. 
Although I only knew Dr. Dees since Dr. McCarthy‘s retirement, I quickly developed a deep respect for his compassion, intellect and sense of humor. It was obvious to me that his family was very important to him. He was a curious man with empathy for others and a very good heart. I am glad I had the opportunity to know him, and am sorry for your loss.
Earth lost a shining star and Heaven gained one…too soon…
I am so saddened by this news. I cannot fully express my gratefulness and admiration for Dr.Dees. He was not only a truly competent physician but a kind and caring man of integrity and wisdom. I will miss him very much and remember him always. MarieTherese Duryea
Mr.Dees you are a great person that showed kindness and care to those who were privileged to know you. May your light continue to shine from above just as the impact you made here on earth will. Sending love and prayers to the Dees family. 
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Morris will be missed by so many of us.  I am so sad to hear of his passing.  He cared for my entire family and has been a blessing to us.  My 90 year old mother with dementia just loves him.  He was such a kind, patient, loving human being.  He cared for so many in the cancer community and everyone adored him.  We will miss you terribly, Morris.  Rest in peace, my dear friend.
I loved Dr Dees as a Doctor and a friend.  I am SO sorry to hear of his untimely passing.  Sending many blessings and prayers that you may all be comforted in this difficult time.

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