I had the pleasure of meeting Michelle a few years ago through a mutual friend. When I learned that my best friend made another friend with the same name as mine, I was eager to find out who this Michelle #2 could possibly be.

What I quickly came to learn about Michelle was that she was genuine, inviting, free-spirited and truly enjoyable to be around. She was one of those people that you rarely come across in life and are able to just click with naturally and instantly. While I may not have known Michelle for as long or as well as many others, I did come to realize during the time I spent with her was that she was a beautiful person, inside and out. When in the company of her and Carlos together, there was this uncontrollable sense of laughter and positive energy that was generated throughout the room. We had some memorable moments together, which now seems like forever ago, but it was an absolute privilege to get to know her.

I dont understand why God chose to take her so soon, but what I do know is that Michelle surely touched the lives of everyone she crossed paths with in a unique way and her spirit and legacy will live on through her family, friends, and loved ones forever.

Michelle and I met in Winston college in Chicago the first thing I ever thought was “God that girl has a resting bitch face and it’s 8am how does she have a perfect wing eye liner.”

It didn’t take very long for Michelle to put another girl in our class in check which made me fall in love with her immediately. We started chatting and realized we had so much in common. We started hanging out to study for microbiology but, very quickly we would end up at the bar. I would give her so much shit for always ordering a vodka cranberry. I would say “are you 18 years old or do you have UTI?” Our back and forth shit talking is what made our friendship. Not long after I was introduced to Carlos and I thought “God they are so perfect together she is bat shit crazy and he can’t get enough of it” I always looked up to their relationship. Their love filled the room so much that at times it was overwhelming uncomfortable I have to admit I admired it. 

Once Michelle found out she was pregnant she became a different person. She was and always will be so in love with Luca. She would always say “I’m a going to be the best mom”. I believed her because it was true. I always let her know I was here for her because she didn’t have any family in Chicago. 

Michelle went above and beyond to help others. When I started my cleaning business she would call and say “how can I help?” This girl got me so much business that I owe my success to her. 

She will forever be in my heart. I will forever be here for Carlos and Luca. Auntie Patty is just a call away. Michelle I love you and wreak havoc on the other side!