Michael's obituary
Michael Shames-Yeakel, 74, passed away on October 27, 2025, in Oak Park, Illinois. Born on August 16, 1951, in Clinton, Illinois, Michael lived a life marked by curiosity, kindness, and a deep love for family and friends.
He graduated from Northern Illinois University and Purdue University, laying the foundation for a diverse and accomplished career. Michael began as a teacher at the Hebrew Academy of Northwest Indiana and later changed careers. He worked at Inland Steel at the #7 Blast Furnace, Process Automation, and the Research Lab. His career evolved further when he partnered with his wife, Marci, at Best Practices, providing I.T. consulting services that reflected his interest in technology and network support.
Michael was an easygoing and affable man who loved connecting with people. He was an avid golfer and lifelong sports enthusiast, especially cheering on his favorite Chicago teams. He enjoyed hiking with his beloved Golden Retrievers, tending his garden, and sharing good food and laughter with family and friends. He had a deep appreciation for classic rock and especially treasured attending concerts with his daughter. He also loved attending Chicago theater with his wife and son and was a loyal subscriber and contributor to several theater companies.
Those who knew Mike remember his patience, intelligence, and warmth. He offered advice with empathy, celebrated others’ perspectives (unless he strongly disagreed - he had strong opinions on certain topics), and was happiest when surrounded by loved ones. His toasts at family gatherings were legendary — full of humor, heart, and gratitude.
He is survived by his loving wife, Marci; son, Joshua; daughter, Larissa; grandchildren, Leo and Eve Berringer; brothers, Mark (Sharon) and Matt (Jeannie); brother-in-law, Steve Shames; sister-in-law, Deborah Shames (David Booth); and many extended family members and friends who were touched by his kindness and generosity. He was preceded in death by his parents, William and Frances Yeakel, his mother-in-law, Mickey (Bernie) Fishman, and his father-in-law Robert Shames.
Donations in Michael’s memory may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association or Suncrest Hospice in Northbrook, IL.
Michael liked to say, “It’s better to ask forgiveness than permission.” Words that perfectly capture the generous, mischievous, and fun-loving way he lived his life.