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Melissa's obituary

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Melissa Starkey (Mina), beloved wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, aunt and friend, who departed on December 5th, 2024 at the age of 60.

Melissa was born July 17th 1964 in Fitchburg, MA to Pete Mina Sr. and the late Carol Mina (Pelton). She was a devoted wife to Tom Starkey for 25 years and a loving mother to Jeffrey Benedict and Sarah Danevich, husband David. Melissa’s greatest pride and joy was her granddaughter, Penelope Danevich, who brightened her days and filled her heart with love and life. She is also survived by her beloved siblings, Deborah Mina, Peter Mina Jr., and Cheryl Dias (Mina), with whom she shared a lifetime of love, laughter, and lasting memories.

Melissa was a talented cook and enthusiastic host who took great pleasure in bringing family and friends together. In her last 13 years she spent many hours making her Melbourne, FL home into a haven of warmth and laughter, where delicious meals and cherished memories were created. She loved to gather loved ones around her table, sharing not only her culinary delights but also her vibrant spirit and infectious love for life.

An avid Yankees fan, Melissa spent countless hours cheering on her team, her passion for baseball reflecting her spirited personality. Whether celebrating a victory or commiserating a loss, her love for the game was a testament to her unwavering enthusiasm for life’s joys.

Melissa was deeply committed to her communities, engaging with various groups through the years that enriched her life and the lives of those around her. From her lively time at Market Basket to the camaraderie at Bunco nights she formed lasting friendships. A proud graduate of St. Bernard’s Class of 1982, Melissa held a special place in her heart for her friends and the connections she made there.

Melissa Starkey’s kindness, generosity, and vibrant spirit will be profoundly missed by all who knew her. She leaves behind a legacy of love, resilience, and community that will continue to inspire those who were fortunate enough to be a part of her life.

A private celebration of Melissa’s life will be held at a later date, where family and friends will come together to share stories and honor her memory. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that contributions be made to LUNGevity in Melissa’s name. https://fundraise.lungevity.o…

Rest in peace, Melissa. You will forever be in our hearts.

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In less than 10 years, Missy and I went from acquaintances to friends to family. Need I say more. You are dearly missed…
In less than 10 years, Missy and I went from acquaintances to friends to family. Need I say more. Y…
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Our hearts go out to all that are missing Melissa! Especially sending love to our friends, the Danevich family. 

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I loved Missy like a sister. From the night we met 11yrs ago she made me laugh.  She welcomed everyone into her life. S…
I loved Missy like a sister. From the night we met 11yrs ago she made me laugh.  She welcomed every…
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We will miss you Missy Taken from us way to young Remembering your beautiful smile 
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Melissa "Missy" Starkey (Mina)