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Just devastating news - Melissa was one of the most consistently kind humans that I have ever known.  Even with all of the built-in stressors of a tech sales career a smile was never gone from her face for long.  And she was game for any adventure - an absolute personification of "this one goes to 11!"

So long, my friend.  

I was saddened to hear of Melissa's passing.  We worked together and she was always a fun, positive and outgoing person. 

We lost touch over the years, but I'll always remember the fun times. 

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Melissa was my colleague.  He was always a positive, hard-working contributor to the team.  She added so much beauty to life.  She will be missed!
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I was so sorry to hear about Melissa's passing. She was such an incredible and sweet person. I first met Melissa at a Trend Micro SKO. We were sitting at the same table by chance. Both of us were blessed with the gift of never meeting a stranger. I will never forget the first thing she ever said to me. “Did you just step out of a Brooks Brothers catalog or did your mother dress you?” As usual I had just taken a sip of my adult beverage and ended up spewing it out of nose and mouth while laughing at her comment.  That’s where our friendship started.  I will never forget the time I was able to work with Melissa. She was a one of a kind person. Always quick with a zing and in the next breath a heartfelt and genuine how are you. Heaven  got an incredible addition. I feel so fortunate to have been able to meet and have Melissa as a friend and co-worker.  Rest in peace “Bailey”. You will be missed but not forgotten. 
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I am deeply saddened to hear this news. Melissa was truly one of the sweetest, truest friends I was blessed to have in the business world. I shall forever cherish the memories and times we had together. May her sweet soul rest in eternal peace, and my deepest sympathies to her sister Suzanne and their family. 
So sorry to hear about Melissa's passing.  We worked together at Trend Micro. I recall her talking about Vanderbilt and NYC when I met her in California for a work meeting—my condolences to her family and friends. 
So sad to hear that Melissa has passed. Melissa was a terrific person and I'll always think highly of our time together back in early WebEx days.
Anyone here know of how to get in touch with Suzanne?
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I was extremely saddened to hear of Melissa’s passing. I had the pleasure of knowing her and spending time with her at Camp Green Cove during many summers. Her enthusiasm, energy and wit were contagious. She had the biggest, brightest smile and was always quick to make others laugh! She was a mean paddler and fabulous on the back of a horse. She lived a life full of vibrancy and will be sorely missed. 
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So very sad that Melissa left us so early. She and I carpooled from SF to Sunnyvale several times a week for many years when we worked at WebEx pre-Cisco in the early 2000’s. She was a fun and funny person, and always entertaining.  

I was deeply saddened to hear of Melissa’s passing.  Some years ago I had the pleasure of knowing her professionally and remember her thoughtful and caring personality.  She was admired by everyone around her,

My thoughts are with her family and all that knew her.

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Stanford Rock, Lake Tahoe
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I was so saddened to hear about Melissa’s passing. I had the pleasure of working with her about 14 years ago — she was with Citrix Systems and I was with InterVision.

I still remember how kind, patient, and genuinely helpful she was. Melissa had a wonderful way of making people feel comfortable and supported, no matter how busy things got.

She left a lasting impression on everyone she worked with, and I’ll always remember her warmth and professionalism. My heartfelt condolences to her family and loved ones.

— Michael Stoffey

My most sincere condolences to the family.  Melissa was a great human.  We had a ton of fun together running around the SF Marina, Yacht Club parties and Oracle crazyness.  Her energy was infectious and we always had fun when we saw each other.  I'll miss you mbailey@us.oracle.com....  Fish.
I was blessed to have Melissa as a member of our US West team when I ran the Americas at Citrix.  She gifted us with a wonderful presence and a light that will always shine.  My deepest condolences and love to Melissa’s family and loved ones.  May she rest in peace.
Suzanne and family, I was so sorry to hear about losing Melissa. She was a good colleague and friend, with many a great story, meal and laughter. What I will remember about Melissa was how genuine and loyal she was with people. To her friends, she was always willing to listen, make fun and never spare you a corny joke. To her customers and partners, she always went the extra mile and sometimes more. Melissa was always there when you needed her, and wouldn't let you down. Unless, there was a game on, then you'd have to wait. She will be missed, and we are less without her.
So sorry to hear about Melissa’s passing.   I knew her back in the WebEx days.  She was a happy soul and loved life!  Sending positive thoughts to Melissa’s family and friends during this time.  
Melissa and Oracle Friends
Marin County, CA, USA
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End of a long day, middle of a long week, at a Seattle restaurant Borolo, with a work associate having a cocktail. I bumped into another ex-colleague who was there with other work associates including Melissa.  I barely remember who was in that small group that evening, but I certainly remember meeting Melissa.  Her dynamic engaging personality was hard to miss.  Melissa you will be dearly missed.  RIP. ❤️
I had the pleasure of being introduced to Melissa via phone by some business colleagues of mine who knew her well.  I got to speak with her a number of times and each time, her sense of humor and spirit were both extremely evident.  So saddened to learn of her passing.  Extending my deepest condolences and heartfelt sympathies to her family and friends.

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