I first met Matt (who I would mostly refer to as Stemen, or Steam [sic]) in 2007. We'd started at the same job at roughly the same time, and would spend most of the next 10 years working literally side by side.
As in Mr. Flaherty's story, Steam and I had a friendly-but-antagonistic professional relationship as software developer and software tester. Any time I would fail to do my job correctly, which was often, it was Steam who would tell me - with his characteristic precision, straightforwardness, and barely-hidden glee. He was not one to mince words, or pull punches, and he'd send my failures back to me with a flourish, a grin, and an unmistakable twinkle in his eye. Steam had a singular ability to be equal parts maddening and endearing, and it was this unique trait that made him irreplaceable and impossible not to love.
What started as professional courtesy became a close friendship as the years passed, rife with his unforgettable sense of humor and mischief. He was big-hearted, quick-witted, and more perceptive than I would ever let him know. I can still see his mischievous smile, the way he'd somehow always wave goodbye without raising his hand from his waist, and I can still hear the booming laugh he gave on the rare occasion that one of my jokes really tickled him.
He was a hard nut to crack sometimes, but he nonetheless would consistently demonstrate how much he cared. He was guest #1 at countless barbecues. I would bring him exotic hot sauces from my travels, and he would happily accept them, finish them, a dutifully give me a detailed rating and review. He would call me a Philistine with that glint in his eye.
He touched my life in enduring ways - even though our contact dropped off when I moved away, not a week has gone by that I wasn't reminded of him in some small way. He was a good man and a good friend, and I will remember him always.