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Happy Heavenly Birthday to my best friend 🕊️

Not a day goes by that I don’t think about you. I miss your smile, your laugh, and those crazy conversations that somehow always turned into full-on belly laughs. The kind where we couldn’t breathe, our stomachs hurt, and tears were rolling down our faces. I miss laying down together watching shows, doing absolutely nothing but feeling completely content just being side by side.

I miss our group chat so much—where you would send the most off-the-wall, random, hilarious stuff that only you could find. You always knew how to lighten the mood and make everything feel a little less heavy. I miss your energy, your humor, and the way you could make any moment better just by being you.

I miss how amazing you were with my boys. The love you had for them meant more to me than you’ll ever know. I wish Liam had the chance to truly know you and feel that love, and I know Kaden misses you deeply. You were such a special part of our lives, and that space you filled can never be replaced.

I’m so incredibly grateful that life brought us together and that I got to call you my best friend. That bond, those memories, and that love will always stay with me. I carry you in my heart every single day. I love you beyond words and miss you more than I can explain.

Happy birthday in heaven, Mary.

Forever my best friend.

I love you always. Happy birthday, Dirt 🤍💔

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Happy Birthday my beautiful Girl.  We miss you so much!
The world is not the same without you my beautiful girl.   But, I will  always  remember your bright smile and the way you lit up the house when you came home,  It's  hard, but we will keep on, the same way you would have.  Can't wait to see you again! Love you forever.
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Still don’t have the words—except that I love you, Mary, and I’m sorry. 
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I miss you deeply my bestest friend. Every damnn daayyy. I miss your infectious laugh. You were my favorite person and I'm still pretty pissed at you for leaving. This world didn't deserve your light, but damn the hole you left is a bottomless pit. Shine down on the ones down here missing you. I love you Mary MotherFuckin' Dermer. Always. 
She had the face of a supermodel, the mouth of a sailor,  the brains of Einstein, and the pain of van gough. Mary felt deeply and carried a lot of our pain along with her own, she would do anything to make you smile, accompany you to keep you from being lonely, keep you fed, anything she possibly could to make you forget about what you were going through. She truly was one of a kind. I hope to hug you again one day girl! This world didn’t deserve you, none of us did. You really were an angel walking this earth, I hope you are at peace wherever you are. Please come visit me in my dreams one day. Love you, a hui hou mary!
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Missing you a lot today. 
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My Mary MF’in Deemer.  It has been almost a year without you on this planet. 365 days has not eased the ache of losing you in my heart at all. I miss you everyday my beautiful best friend. I love you always. <3
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How does one live without their child??  Please tell me
This Wonderful human walked into her home everyday with a smile bright as anything anyone has ever seen.  She is truly missed and will be forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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Mary MF’n Deemer. Today you w…
Mary MF’n Deemer. Today you would of been 31. There are no words that can even come close to expressing how wonderful you were. There are no words that can convey how much worse off this world is without you in it. You were a force of life in the best possible way. You loved hard, you worked hard, you played hard, and you cared hard- for everyone and everything. You were the most raw, selfless, genuine person I have ever met, you were one of my most favorite people in the whole world. I don’t know how to say goodbye to you Mary, and I certainly don’t know how to go on in a world without you in it. There will forever be a Mary sized hole in my heart. I’ll love you and miss you forever.
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