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Marla's obituary

Marla Jo Parker-Killinger, 78, of Des Moines, Iowa, passed away on January 10, 2026. 

Born on February 27, 1947, in Waterloo, Iowa, to Norma Jean and Fred Parker, Marla spent her early years surrounded by family and light. As a child, she was celebrated for her beauty and charm - voted most photogenic and winning awards that reflected her radiant spirit. 

In the 1970s, Marla moved to Newton, where her life blossomed with purpose. There she raised five children and became a steady presence in her community as a devoted Sunday school teacher and compassionate neighbor. In the 1990s, she relocated to the Des Moines area and began a new chapter in education - a path that would define the remainder of her professional life. 

For 23 years, Marla served with dedication at Ruby Van Meter school. Her voice carried strength; her heart held space for many. Outspoken, yet tender, she championed kindness and fairness in all she did. Her presence left an enduring imprint on students and colleagues alike. 

Marla's legacy continues through her children; Craig (Stacy) Killinger, Kevin Killinger, Curtis Killinger, Kristi Ware and Casandra (Matthew) Jasso; and through her grandchildren; Taylor (William) DeRosia, Devin Ware, Levi Killinger, Mia Jasso, Matthew Jasso Jr, Tanner Killinger, Katelyn (Tanner) Kosman, and KC Killinger. She is also remembered by many other family members and loved ones who carry her memory forward with love. 

She now joins those who went before her; her parents Norma and Fred Parker; aunt Barbara Mallory; uncle Robert Gerard; grandmother Jesse Jacobs-Gerard; and grandfather Harold Gerard. 

Marla's warmth lingers like sunlight after dusk - gentle yet lasting. May her memory bring comfort to all who knew her. 

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