Linda's obituary
Linda Lee Sylvander, aka Linda Haynes, 75, of Summerville, SC, passed away peacefully, with her family by her side, on July 17, 2023. Born on November 4th, 1947, in Miami, FL, Linda was a kind-hearted and wise woman who touched the lives of those around her with her loving spirit.
Linda was a devoted mother, grandmother and friend. She is survived by her son, Gregory Leif Sylvander, her daughter-in-law, Courtney Lynn Sylvander, her grandchildren, James Riley Sylvander and Amelia Grace Sylvander. Additionally, she is survived by her “son from another mother” Raul Dones Jr. She also is survived by her cats Bingo, Bluey and dogs Rex, Biggie and Raya. Linda's love for her family and animals was immeasurable. She cherished the time spent with her loved ones.
In 2019, Linda moved from Florida to South Carolina to live with her son and family. The years that followed often were described by Linda as “where I know I belong, truly home”.
Linda Haynes, as she was known in the film industry, was a supremely talented actress from 1969 to the early 1980’s. A life member of The Actor’s Studio and member of The Screen Actors Guild (SAG). She had a natural ability to captivate audiences with her performances, leaving a lasting impression on all who had the pleasure of watching her. Linda's innate ability to bring characters to life was truly remarkable.
Quentin Tarantino, one of the great American directors of our time, had this to say about Linda’s acting career and one her most acclaimed movies, Rolling Thunder.
The quote from Tarantino below is edited down due to length:
“ROLLING THUNDER, I just love….THE performance of the film for me is Linda Haynes as Linda Forchet! She was in one of the sleepers for the first QT fest THE NICKEL RIDE, she was in Pam Grier’s COFFY… she was the girl that reaches into Grier’s afro when she has the razors in there and ‘aaaahhhh’. But Linda Forchet is my favorite female character in a Paul Schrader movie…….She has that look that Ava Gardner got, you know blousey, but it took Ava years to do it, and Linda Haynes just did it naturally. And I mean that in a good way."
In addition to her successful acting career, Linda also worked as a legal secretary, showcasing her versatility. Her professional endeavors were a testament to her determination and commitment to making a difference in the lives of those closest to her.
Linda also had a deep passion and talent for art. After her acting career, she was often found working on beautiful paintings of the sea and nature. In the 1990’s, her time spent on Staniel Key, in the Exuma islands of the Bahamas, helped to deepen her love for the ocean.
She had a gift for engaging in conversation, making those who spoke with her always feel comfortable and at ease.
In lieu of flowers or any other individual contribution to Linda or her family, Linda’s wish was for all who read this, and feel moved to do so, please honor her life by living with the spirit of forgiveness in your heart.
“Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.”
Linda Haynes Sylvander will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her. Her legacy as an actress, artist, and loving individual will continue to inspire and bring joy to those who remember her. May her soul rest in eternal peace