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2023, Colton, CA, USA
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My beautiful Aunty is my new guardian Angel.  She showered a lot of love on us and our kids. I will miss her phone calls and well wishes. 

Uncle John Victor,  Pradeep Anna,  Asha Acca,  Mark Anna,  and Suji Acca, may God's unconditional love and comfort encompass you all during this difficult time. May we live with the faith that it won't be long before we see my beloved Aunty again. 

Aunty Lillie
2017, Riverside, California
Aunty Lillie — with Grandchildren Romilyn, Raelyn, and Rhealyn
SCRIPTURES
That were found highlighted in her Bible:
“And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”
‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭12‬:‭9‬ ‭KJV‬‬
“Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; And lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, And he shall direct thy paths.”
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭3‬:‭5‬-‭6‬ ‭KJV‬
“But now thus saith the LORD that created thee, O Jacob, and he that formed thee, O Israel, Fear not: for I have redeemed thee, I have called thee by thy name; thou art mine. When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee. For I am the LORD thy God, the Holy One of Israel, thy Saviour: I gave Egypt for thy ransom, Ethiopia and Seba for thee. Since thou wast precious in my sight, thou hast been honourable, and I have loved thee: therefore will I give men for thee, and people for thy life.”
‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭43‬:‭1‬-‭4‬ ‭KJV‬‬
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: not of works, lest any man should boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.”
‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭2‬:‭8‬-‭10‬ ‭KJV‬‬
“In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace; wherein he hath abounded toward us in all wisdom and prudence; having made known unto us the mystery of his will, according to his good pleasure which he hath purposed in himself:”
‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭1‬:‭7‬-‭9‬ ‭KJV‬‬
She had this one titled “prayers for sisters”:
“I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, From whence cometh my help. My help cometh from the LORD, Which made heaven and earth. He will not suffer thy foot to be moved: He that keepeth thee will not slumber. Behold, he that keepeth Israel Shall neither slumber nor sleep. The LORD is thy keeper: The LORD is thy shade upon thy right hand. The sun shall not smite thee by day, Nor the moon by night. The LORD shall preserve thee from all evil: He shall preserve thy soul. The LORD shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in From this time forth, and even for evermore.”
‭‭Psalm‬ ‭121‬:‭1‬-‭8‬ ‭KJV‬‬
Ferris wheel
2002, Haridwar, Uttarakhand, India
Ferris wheel — with Aunty Lillie and Uncle John
Manidhar Bob
2002, Haridwar, Uttarakhand, India

Aunty was a very loving soul she always loved me and my family , her kindness and generosity is  so immensely valued . 

I will always remember her smile  which is so infectious .

Her loss is incomprehensible, her memories will alway live and would be blessing

We miss Auntie Lilly so much. She was a loving, kind, and compassionate person who lived a life of honesty, integrity, and transparency in both her faith and everyday life. Her beliefs were evident in her actions, and she served as an example for all of us. Nothing can replace her absence in our lives. She was a blessing and a source of comfort for many.

Life on this earth is a temporary journey, and sooner or later, we all have to depart from this world. We are waiting for the day of Jesus's Second Coming when we will be reunited with our loved ones who are no longer with us physically.

Dear Auntie, thank you so much for your motherly love for us. We always had a great time whenever we visited the USA. Your home was always open for us and you cared for us even a small detail of our needs was met.

I never thought that you would be soon departing from this world. We love Auntie and we wait for you the day of Jesus second coming.

Dear Aunt,I find it difficult…
2018, Maryland, USA

Dear Aunt,

I find it difficult to express the profound impact you had on my life. You were not just an aunt; you were like a mother to me. Your unwavering support during my move to Austria meant the world to me. You were my rock, always checking in on me and ensuring I was doing well in this new chapter of my life.

I will forever cherish the joyful Christmas we spent together, surrounded by family and indulging in your delicious cooking. Your kindness and warmth touched everyone around you, and I will carry those memories in my heart forever.

I miss you, Aunt. Thank you for being such a guiding light in my life. Your love will always remain with me.

With all my love and deepest condolences to Uncle, Pradeep Anna, Asha Acca, Mark, and Suji Acca.

My condolences to Vadina, Johnie Anna, and their children. Vadina was more than family—she was a constant source of love and kindness. She was like a mother to me and my family. Whether it was helping me recover when I was ill, cooking some of my son’s favorite Indian dishes while I was away, or simply welcoming us into her home with warmth and generosity, she did it with love. She never hesitated to lend a hand, bring food to the hospital, or invite us over for a meal. Holidays, dinners, or just an ordinary day—Vadina made sure we felt loved and cared for. Her kindness leaves a lasting imprint on all of us. She will be deeply missed, but her love and generosity will always be remembered.

From: Victoria & Ratnam Busi.  We have lost a loving and humble friend. We were in the nursing school at GMHospital Nuzvid. After training we worked in the same hospital as staff nurses.

After some time we moved to Canada and Lillie moved to USA. We used to call each other often and visited each other. We know each other for 68 yrs.

John Victor & family,

Our heartfelt condolences to you all. Our loved ones legacy of Love and kindness remain for ever and to the Joy of Resurrection.

I am PD Solomon and first met Lillie at GMH School of nursing Nuzvid in 1957 as 1st year nursing students. We both graduated in 1960, then Lillie joined in Midwifery training. Then we both worked in GMH for few years.

I got married to Rosalind in 1964 then migrated to Canada in 1966.

Lilly got married to John anna in 1965 then migrated to USA.

We continued our family friendship .

Whenever we visited Maryland we visited Lillie's family.

Never returned to Canada without having a meal in their home.

She was always generous and very hospitable.

John anna and Lillie have visited us several times with family.

Lillie had a desire to visit Canada to spend some time with us one more time.

Unfortunately ...she did not make it.

We will certainly miss Lillie.

I am Florence Pragasam, a good friend of Lillie Acca, as I fondly called her. I am honored to celebrate the life of Lillie Acca for the impact she had on me along with my classmates.

I first met her in 1967 when I joined the School of Nursing at Giffard Memorial Hospital in Nuzvid, India. We started our clinicals in our 2nd year of Nursing, that's when I got to know the true Lilly Acca. She had many qualities of the woman of Proverbs 31, but I am going to highlight three of those qualities.

1. Lillie Acca was caring and companionate, in tune with the needs of those around her, and she was bilingual.

She was the bridge between the physician and the patient. She was a permanent AM charge nurse for Flaiz ward - the women's ward. Dr. Hiscox, was the physician covering the ward and she was a strict physician. Moreover, there was a language barrier between the physician and the patients. Most of the patients spoke only Telugu and the doctor spoke only English.

One day while rounding, they came to a patient who underwent a surgery the previous day and was in pain. The doctor wanted to see the operating site; and without explaining to the patient, she reached out and pulled the dressing off. The patient was shocked and cried out. Lillie Acca comforted the patient, explained to her what the doctor was looking for, made sure that the patient got the pain medication and attended to the doctor, who was holding the soiled dressing in her hand. Lillie Acca pulled a bag out of her pocket to disposed the soiled dressing. She anticipated what would come during rounds and was ready to meet the challenge. She had anticipated this and brought a bag to put the soiled dressing.

2. Lillie Acca, followed that God our Heavenly Father told us to look after the orphan in their needs. David, a baby boy, abandoned by his mother due his health condition, was placed in the Flaiz ward under the care of her supervision. She made sure that with the help of the nursing students, he was cared for physically, mentally and emotionally. Later he was adopted by Marion Miller.

3. Lillie Acca's caring not only extended to her family, patients, orphans, physicians but also to a nursing student, that is me. In 1971, I reconnected with Lillie Acca in Maryland. In order to obtain a nursing license to work as an RN, we needed to take Psych nursing from an accredited school of nursing and complete the required clinical hours. So, we both joined a program. The clinical site was about an hour away from where we lived. Lillie Acca was a brand-new driver and I didn't know driving. So, she drove me back and forth every day for three months. At that time, as a mother to four children, she took care of her household, did all the homework, and was on time for classes. She was a safe driver. She truly embodied the woman of Proverbs 31. She has touched my life in a profound way. All the credit of who I am today goes to her. I will always remember her love, kindness, and patience shown towards me. Lillie Acca you are in my heart forever.

Dear Lilli aunt family,

  Our heart felt condolences. We miss you aunty. You are so nice, caring. We love you . You are in our hearts forever.

Lillie Aunty and Rafael Omidp…
2017
Lillie Aunty and Rafael Omidpanah
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Dear Family of Mrs. Lillie Victor.

I write with a heavy heart as I think of the life of Mrs. Victor.  Ms. Lillie was one of my favorite patients at Kaiser Permanente Largo Medical Center Opthamology.

We first met in May 2011, when she first developed double vision.  Witha diagnosis of third cranial nerve palsy, we feared there could be an aneurism, which indeed there was.

After the interventional radiologist 'coiled' the aneurism, her risk of immediate death was much less, but the symptoms of droopy eyelid and eyeball turned out never healed.

Despite this, Mrs. Victor has a positive attitude and went on to have a successful cataract surgery and treatment for glaucoma, and never expressed regret of anxiety with regards to her left eye.  Mrs. Victor always updated me on her niece, and my colleague, Lakshmi, who works in cardiology.

I will be retiring soon from Opthamology practice after 26 years.  I will hold Mrs. Victor in my heart and I feel blessed to have known her.

Best wishes, Howard I Savage, MD.

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