'My English Sister'...
That's what Kris called me.
My heart is broken that my pen friend, Kristyne passed away on Friday. 💔
We found each other when we were both 10 years old and have written (yes, snail mail every two weeks in the late 70s/80s/90s), emailed, Facebook messaged and called each other into the noughties until just a few weeks ago, 46 years of the most incredible friendship. 💝
We met twice, first when we were 17, (two weeks in California, I was so lucky!) and then aged 32, we met up in Memphis for two days. There I met her two beautiful girls in the flesh, after Kris had shared so, so many photographs of them from babies to growing into beautiful young women, she loved you so much, Kimberly and Kyleigh, and she was bursting with pride and joy every time she talked or wrote to me about you. She had the craziest nick names for everyone, my kids were the moppets and Olivia, who carries Kristynes name as her middle name, was later 'sweat pea'.
I was blessed to get to know Kris' wider family when I visited the US. Her Mom Judi, Step dad Bruce, her Aunt Sue, Uncle Butch and all her cousins, even meeting cousin Jon here in Manchester, performing with his band Reel Big Fish.
We have had the most magnificent connection constantly across the pond. A link of the love of friendship beating constantly over the ocean. We've been through births, marriages, death and divorces together as we've navigated our interwined adult lives together, and Kris was always there to support me through thick and thin. Sadly, Kris suffered with her physical health for the last few decades but she was always my cheerleader on all my adventures and she told me often she vicariously lived through them.
She always sent me such beautiful gifts, I've photographed some of my treasured items from the past and the most recent ones.
She had a mad sense of humour, a fiesty, crazy lady who found treasure in the smallest flowers, beloved pets - her dogs, chickens, ducks, pony next door and the many stunning sunsets over the mountain views she could see directly from her little small holding in Colorado.
I am bereft, tears spring to my eyes as I write this part. I have been so very blessed to have been loved by this strong, magnificent woman who has truly enriched my life. I will forever have a place in my heart especially for her. Now she is free of her physical pain and has found her peace 🕊.
Love you Kris, till we meet again xx 💞