Kemjika. You came and demonstrated your given potentials within a short period of time time and departed like a flash and left us devastated with an indelible scar in our hearts 

May your soul and rest of the faithful departed rest in perfect peace. 

Amen 

Kem we met your freshman year of college at UNC-Chapel Hill. From that point on was history.  We talked about current events, played sports, traveled, went to the business school and studied with our crew, and everything in between we had good times.  Your perseverance, dedication,  and determination are just a few things I want to highlight. Early on, in college you said you were going to be a medical doctor and sure enough you were.  There were two chemistry classes Organic Chemistry and Analytical Chemistry that were really hard courses and you made it your goal to excel in them, which you did. These same qualities went along with you in your life. When times were good or bad you never gave up and faced things head on. Miss you man. I know this not good bye but until we meet again. Rest in peace!

My dear cousin Kemji. It has taken me a while to come to terms with your departure from us and that is why it has taken me so long to write this message. 

Being cousins of a similar age, we have always shared a bond and right from our younger days, I always looked at you almost as my own brother despite us residing across the ocean. We didn't always keep in touch but when we spoke, it was like 2 lost brothers who found each other again and interacted like we've never been apart. What hurts me most however is how we became even closer over the past 6-7 years! Technology gave us the opportunity to keep in touch and grow our brotherhood even further. It really started by you attending my traditional wedding in South Africa! For you to make such an effort to come all that way to witness, participate and support me....is something I will never forget and I knew again from that day that Kemji was really more than just a cousin to me! Our bond continued to grow from there and even further when I had kids! There are little things in life that people do and it's not until they are gone, you realise how valuable they are. Whenever I shared a picture or video of my kids on "WhatsApp", without fail, Kemji would respond to every single post to check in on how the kids were doing! I didn't think anything of it initially until maybe a few months ago and again it just reminded me that you are more than just a cousin. 

Kemji, my heart is broken further because the last few months, our friendship and brotherhood went to even greater heights and we spent weeks before your passing in regular conversation about everything! Life, marriage, kids etc. I was actually waiting on you to respond to my last (extremely long) WhatsApp message knowing that you had exams to tackle but I was happy to wait so we can pick up where we left off. It wasn't to be. I'm left with the thoughts of how our bond would have continued to grow over time and the hope of you finally meeting the kids you always checked on so they can see this loving uncle who cared so much for them.

As I look through the tributes on this website and I think of my own experience with you, it is really clear that you were more than just a cousin, a friend, a brother, a nephew, a son to everyone you came across. Your nature had a way of giving more to people and that's a unique quality that a lot of us do not have. 

We were lucky to have you Kemji. Lucky in many ways because you persevered through some of the most difficult adversities and still thrived, still gave each of us that positivity that got you through and we really felt it. So we were lucky! You served your purpose cousin, you touched the lives of everyone you encountered and for that we celebrate you and ensure you that your name, your legacy will live with us forever. My kids will grow up to know everything about uncle Kemji and I know that myself, your parents, brothers and wider family will forever keep your name alive. 

We will love you forever Kemji. Rest well, thank you and thank God for the privilege to share these years with such a positive force as yourself. 

Love always. Your cousin.

Chib

In Loving Memory of Kemjika,

Though you are no longer with us, your vibrant spirit and infectious laughter continue to echo in our hearts. 

Your presence brought some light and joy on the young Onuoha men family group and your memory remains a source of comfort and inspiration. 

As we bid farewell, we hold onto the cherished moments we have and the agape love that will forever bind us. 

Rest peacefully, dear cousin, knowing that your legacy lives on in our lives and the lives you touched.

With love and fond memories,

Esona

You were not merely a nephew Nkemjika, you were a shining star in our family constellation. Your dedication and passion as a promising surgeon, were evident to everyone who had the privilege of knowing you.

I read your last WhatsApp message to me over and over again because I am finding it difficult to process the fact that you are gone so soon from this world. Your absence is a painful reminder of the fragility of life. Your memory will always be in my heart.

Sleep on in peace with the Lord my dear nephew. 

Love always, Aunty Constance