It’s so hard to sum everything up in a few sentences about my aunt Judy. She was a mirror of my own mother that I adore and miss heavy in my heart for the past 17 years since she passed.

Judy and her were like twins. She had the same voice, charisma, loving heart and joy for life. Every time I would see Judy, for a moment I thought my mom was back to life and it was so nice to hear her voice and see her.

She had a kind heart and was so fortunate to have such a wonderful husband , my uncle Ralph. They had the good fortune to be together for so long and to be there for each other for over 60 years. She was very talented, knowing how to paint and play musical instruments, a great cook and a wonderful comical personality. She always found a way to make everyone laugh. I always admired her eye for beauty and always having the ability to keep her home meticulously housewarming. She always knew how to make everybody welcome, have great gatherings [along with my mom] by bringing everyone together with family reunions. Wendy and Brenda are the reflection of her, and this will carry her spirit for generations. I remember the great times we had visiting in Colorado, and although we are apart, we were always together in spirit.

I will miss Judy greatly, but now my mom will be filled with joy knowing she is reconnected to her only sibling and sister. Judy will have nothing to worry about knowing my mom is there with her.  I pray that Wendy and Brenda will know their mother will be with them in spirit by their side at all times. I pray for Ralph to remember the wonderful life they had and know that she will also be with him.