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St Patricks Day with the grad…
2023, Dallas, TX, USA
St Patricks Day with the graduate school friends. We went to Lower Greenville for the St Patricks Day block party. Joe and I share a love of people watching at this particular event. I remember a drunk guy sitting on the railing of a balcony fall off backwards and knock himself out.
Joe's apartment pool on 4th o…
2023, Dallas, TX, USA
Joe's apartment pool on 4th of July weekend.
Early days of graduate school…
2022, Dallas, TX, USA
Early days of graduate school. I think he and I both really loved this time period of graduate school. Work hadn't really started yet and so we spent a lot of time just talking at the apartment. Any bit of free time at work we'd walk back to his apartment and hit our vapes and just chat. About anything really.
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We were going out to celebrat…
2023, Dallas, TX, USA
We were going out to celebrate halloween in the gay-berhood where I lived (Oaklawn) and Joe and Krista had a matching costume from a TV show I never watched (Joe watched a lot of things I never watched). But It was funny because if he weren't with Krista, a man would've approached him thinking he was a "bear". Usually he thought something like that through.
Joe, Ivan, and Ivan's sibling…
2023, Dallas, TX, USA
Joe, Ivan, and Ivan's siblings (Lily not pictured) at my apartment. Right after this we went to IHOP or Dennys on Harry Hines where across the street an alarm had been going off the entire time we ate. I think that place was broken into.
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Joe Grandma will never forget our talks together and grandma and pop will always love you forever grandma and pop Santee k

Joe you were a joy to work with, super smart and was willing to help me anytime I asked. Gonna miss your smile so much.

To his family I'm very sorry for your loss and you have my deepest sympathy.

Nora Jayne
2025, Arlington, TX, USA

Joe was the first person i told at work that i was queer, and even trans.He was immediately supportive and made me feel like nothing changed.Joe was incredibly funny and just a joy to be around.

He was a friend and an ally, even when i didn't know i needed one.

The world is worse without him here.

I am so very sorry for your loss and i wish you all the best in the world.

I’ve had the privilege of knowing Joey for about 15 years. From the very beginning, we instantly connected and he became a part of our family without hesitation.

As many of you know, Joey loved to talk but he was a truly great listener. Every conversation I had with him came from a place of love and genuine care. We talked about everything—medical stuff, career choices, his incredible photography, and of course, Krista.

Joey always asked about Uncle Jimmy and the boys, he always checked in and asked about how they were doing. His thoughtfulness was constant and deeply felt.

I hold so many memories of Joey close to my heart, and that’s where he’ll always stay. He was the best nephew I could asked for—truly one of a kind. He will be deeply, deeply missed. 

 AJMBB loves and misses you, Joey.

Joey loved this picture that …
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Joey loved this picture that was on my wall. Just kidding - he asked me to take it down every time he came over but I wouldn't allow it. He was truly the best!
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Joseph Chan
2016, Inglewood, CA, USA

I was one of the lucky ones who was able to maintain a friendship with Joe after I left the Army.  We bonded through food, tattoos and UFC.  The first UFC fight we attended together was in Inglewood, CA. We were brave enough to grab some barbecue, the day prior to the event, in Compton. He knew the food would be legit when they have bullet proof glass and metal bars on the window where you order your food. I opted for us to eat in our hotel room. 

After the UFC event, he wanted to walk 1.7 miles through the ghetto to Roscoe’s Chicken and Waffles. Knowing how dangerous the route could be, his confidence (or ignorance) convinced me we should go. Somehow we managed to evade any encounters.

I am so sorry for you loss Krista. There are no words.  Love you so much.

Tammarah 

I am so heart broken by this death. He was always there to go the extra mile and help me when I needed something at Fort Bliss. I’m sorry I couldn’t be there for him in his time of need. I pray your family finds comfort and strength to face this challenge. —Rev. Dr. Josh Andrew, Chaplain (CPT), U.S. Army (Retired)

My deepest condolences. I had the fortune of being his friend during his years at UTEP. Our veteran humor and age is what connected us. He was always cheerful and encouraging.  We were always trying to decipher why the kids acted liked kids, we were always laughing. He was always talking about Krista and all the plans for the future.

For his loved ones, there is nothing I can say to take your pain away, but I hope you find peace soon. 

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